No offense to any people who ID as a male reading this. I'm just working through some personal stuff and this has nothing to do with you personally. I apologize. But I just want to touch her face. What is that about, anyway? No one has to respond, this is just me venting out loud. With a guy, it's all about the "groinal region". They might kiss you or not, but the kiss isn't the same as a girl's kiss. With girls, there's the face, boobs, groin, legs, butt, waist, arms, fingers, neck, feet, hair... and everything smells good all the time. Just venting randomly. If any people that are attracted to women feel similarly, feel free to say so. Oh, and girl sweat is freaking sexy but guy sweat is smelly and repulsive? I'm so messed up/biased/infatuated/bisexual/biased/closeted lesbian. [/end of rant]
Oh my gosh I know! I still don't understand what the infatuation with males is about (no offense to the dudes out there). Sex always seems to be about them and fulfilling their purpose. I read somewhere a few weeks ago that a gay woman was shocked to find out that women were actually attracted to men's junk and I said to myself, "wait a minute.... Women actually find that junk attractive? I thought that it was the idea of sex, not their junk". I mean I have never heard a straight woman talk about how attractive dick was. There I said it. I always thought that woman had a lot more to offer.
Completely with you. With a woman it's her smile, her eyes, wanting to kiss her lips gently and slowly to feel every moment of it, wanting to hold her hand, wanting to hold her tight, wanting to feel her entire body entangled with mine, wanting to have sex, wanting to hold her while we sleep… Just… all of it. ALL of it.
We're taught that we should like men and all their assorted parts. Well. No more. Women are just so damn good to look at. The way they walk, the way they move, the way it feels to touch them...damn. Why has it taken me so long to accept this? ---------- Post added 29th Nov 2015 at 05:46 AM ---------- And this. All of this. So very much all of this.
Oh, hon you are not messed up! You just like women. There's nothing wrong with that! It's completely natural. I feel all the same things. I totally understand! Women are beautiful. And they DO smell better than men! Definitely. Everything is better with my wife than with my ex-husband...sexually, emotionally, everything. (!)
(*hug*) (*hug*) Hugs all around! I'm feeling so very cuddly tonight. …and I forgot to mention a woman's voice! God, the more attracted I am to a woman, the more her voice sends these kinds of sonic waves through my bones. And if she lets her voice go all soft and deep. I swear it could make me orgasm without touching. And I love those moments of connection that you get when all this tension is building, and you're scared and happy at the same time because you feel confident and secure in the mutuality of the attraction. ---------- Post added 28th Nov 2015 at 12:17 PM ---------- Shadowsylke, God, you're so lucky!! I wish I was married to my future wife already! I hope I find her soon.
Oh, I know how lucky I am, believe me! I am thankful for every day that I have this woman in my life, and that she was willing to take a chance on my confused, married ass when we met. Not many people would have, and I know that. I'm also very glad that I did not follow the conventional advice on "trigger crushes" with her and just assume that it wouldn't work out...I'm glad I took the leap with her. But she was also single, so that helped. :icon_bigg You'll find your girl, PlaidGlove, I know it. You are too darn charming to remain alone for long! And your descriptions of women are pretty amazing and spot on, too. She's gonna be a lucky girl... :icon_wink
This thread is just. Everything. Every single thing I'm thinking every single day. Just. Everything. Thread of the year.
@everyone *Purring* @Shadowsylke: I'm sure you do, and it makes me so happy to hear your story! And thank you! You're very kind. (*hug*)