What do you like about men?

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  1. gravechild

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    Aside from their physical attributes? I like how easy going compared to women a lot are, as well as their competitive and protective nature. A lot have a less restrained sense of humor, and don't demand non-stop attention.

    This might apply to queer men more, but there isn't the whole ritual/dance involved when it comes to relationship and dating; pretty much anything goes, and the pace is set more towards individual goals.

    There's a "take charge" attitude when it comes to sex, and that's great, since I can't deal with a totally submissive partner. Without men, the world would be a lot less interesting (even if more mature)...
     
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    I can't, for the life of me, put it into words.
     
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    I'm panromantic lesbian, so I should try saying something, still having feelings towards guys, that must count. :slight_smile:

    Mainly I love how they think and how emotionally strong they can be. Voice, and eyes, too. :wink: I'm just an admirer of beauty lol :grin:
     
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    I cant agree more than this

    Personality wise : Calm, Protective, Firm Hand, Affectionate and Kind

    Physically : Tall and Big (not too beefy but above average fit guys :wink:), Solid Abs, Huge Arm, Cannonball Delts, Raging Pecs, Dark Hair (brunette or black), Body Hairs, Stubble, Intriguing Eyes, Deep and Sexy Voice, Dangling thing between the Well formed legs

    and one more details

    sweat:icon_wink

    i have this thing for the smell of men after working out :lol:
     
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    hmmm...

    I think i prefer someone a little taller than me, fit but not to much muscle, blue or green eyes or both (Heterochromia, my best friend has it and i love his eyes! :grin: ), intelligent, funny, competitive, a lot of self-confidence and motivation, anyone that would be willing to give me a back massage right now :slight_smile: (i think i have cold so i kinda feel like sheit).
     
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    They are good to have as friends, but that's about it, as I am a lover of women! :eusa_danc
     
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    Men! (looks around awkwardly) I like so many things in men. I love the D, I like the butts of a lot of men. I like slim boys with high amounts of muscle, eyes oh my God I can't describe the beauty of male eyes. I love just everything in men. I'm still so lonely, I can feel that manly touch holding me softly.

    Mentally I like I'm not entirely sure what I like mentally perhaps a guy who is a nice and attentive boyfriend, mentally I'd say he should be like my first crush, he just was so nice and made me want to spend so much time with him.
     
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    They have penises!
     
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    For me, I like their manly stubble, trim sexy stomach, but nothing could do me in as much as an infectious smile. I love when a cute guy smiles and you can't help but smile too cuz its just so beautiful.
     
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    First off, I'd have to get to know a guy before even being attracted to them physically. If a guy is nerdy, intellectual, funny and kind it would be a good start. If I'm attracted to someone mentally, I would definitely notice their physical attributes after that. I guess that just makes me a bit of an oddball.
     
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    Penises! Also somewhat existent abs, they don't have to be really defined and rock-solid, and brown hair.
     
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    Dat ass.








    But honestly, I like nice guys who share similar interests as me. If they are interested in sciences, animes, my sense of humor, etc. then they are right for me!
     
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    I like small frames to but my perceptions is, gay men like guys with muscles which really does not do anything for me. So it's consorting to learn there is someone else who likes small frames.
     
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    Even though I listed what I like, I don't have a "type". If a guy catches my eye, he catches my eye.
     
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    What do I like about guys? Penis :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Kidding. Ok that's part of why but not the only reason. Guys are easier to talk to I guess and most of them are pretty laid back. Like some of the others have said, body hair is kinda an attraction for me. I'm not into bears but I want the guy I'm with to look like they've at least gone through puberty. Honestly I don't know if I have a 'type' yet since I haven't really dated any guys. But I guess I'm looking for a guy that's kinda around my age with a sense of humor. Oh and I guess I like more fit guys. Anyways that's my rant for the day :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I like chivalrous men. I don't like women who act like that, but I appreciate it in men.
     
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    This guy is called Fukishi Sota. He has an air of feminity around him, (even just superficially). Looking at him makes me feel so calm, for some reason.

    He reminds me how most everyone even the most ordinary looks interesting in their own way in different situations.

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    I like it that you have intercourse as an option with men. I'm not into sex toys.
     
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    Not all men have penises.

    What I like about men depends on the individual. There is something to appreciate about all types of men. I could appreciate the masculinity in one man and the non-conformity in another. I could be attracted to the broadness of a broad man and the slimness of a slim man. I appreciate diversity and complexity in men so I am not going to try to offer a watered-down version of what I prefer them to be.
     
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    I get what you're saying, Gen. I would have no problem dating a trans man.