I hear many people saying they would never kiss on the first date. Some say it's not classy, and some say it's just "tradition." Even though I definitely do not consider myself a classless person in any way (which sounds very pretentious but bear with me), I absolutely kiss on the first date IF it feels right. Nothing beyond that though. My question is: do you kiss on the first date? Do you have a self-imposed limit?
I personally see nothing wrong with kissing on the first date. I wouldn't take the initiative though, but that's mostly due to my nature. Of course, there has to be some sort of connection and potential for a relationship. If there is, I wouldn't mind if the guy kissed me.
If the date went well, yeah I'd kiss on the first date (and have). With a girl though I might feel a little bit more shy. But there's no telling what else could happen if the date went really well and I already knew the person fairly well :') I don't consider myself classless either but I'm not going to ever try and shame myself for natural feelings
Kissing is optional on the first date for me tbh; unless the date and my partner were completely awesome... But even then, I may still be a little shy. :3
No idea, as I've never been on a first date, so I don't have much feeling-wise about the situation. It's not something I'd ever see myself initiating either way though.
KISS ME ON THE FIRST DATE! It's affirmation that we actually did hit it off and I wasn't nearly as awkward as I seemed or all in my head and that you might like to keep seeing more of my awkward self :eusa_danc
I wouldn't mind if we kissed on the first day. If we had a good time and it feels right, why not? I just know that I wouldn't initiate it.
By feelings, I say 'no kissing/cuddling/etc' on the 1st date. I've never had a first date, so I don't know if things would change in reality...
in my YEARS (and years) of experience, unless the date didn't go well, a short controlled kiss is usually the way to go. that's also usually a good sign that they want to see you again. I guess it's really a judgement call of how you think things went. sometimes it's nice to surprise them too. I was on a date once with a co-worker I had been seeing for a bit and we had a small tiff about something or other, I leaned in to kiss her goodbye and she pulled away. instead of being a dick about it, I took her hand and kissed it. she just looked at me and smiled and did kiss me goodbye.
If there is chemistry and it feels right at that moment then yes I would kiss on the first date. If it doesn't and it feels forced then I'd at least give the girl a hug.
Ok so, where I'm from, people would often just kiss someone because he/she is rubbing against them in a disco, usually without even asking their names if they immediately go for it, so I think there's nothing wrong with kissing someone you've known for a few hours if you like them.
I see nothing wrong with it and I probably wouldn't pull away if the other person leaned in for a kiss. But I've only been on dates with people I already knew a bit beforehand, so I knew there was potential there. If it were a complete stranger, we'd need to have some very good chemistry in order for me to initiate.
