One for the guys... At what point did you know you wanted to be a top or bottom, or do you like both? I only accepted I was gay recently but with that acceptance I knew I was only interested in being a bottom.
It's not something you "decide".........it's something that is more like, ok.....well I like that better. For me, I'm a "top" because I don't like my butt touched for one thing, and don't care for the feeling of something "going in the out door".
I am very much a bottom, that came with my acceptance of being gay as in every fantasy I am the bottom and the other guy is always the top.
I tend to be more of a bottom, which I didn't think would be the case until I got a bf and we tried it out.
Well, I don't own a bunk bed so the question is irrelevant. serioisly though, From my fantasies I'm pretty sure I'm a total bottom.
This. To elaborate, I have a feeling that I'd be more physically comfortable as a top, however many bottoms from what I've seen fall into that passive-submissive role where they basically leave all the work and decisions up to me, (my ex in particular was like this and I found it to be super annoying because for me it has to be a team effort or it doesnt work) SO being with someone who's exclusively bottom or top would be difficult for me, and I also see myself as both #1 just to be fair and #2 because it keeps things interesting.
call me when someone posts a gif of a chihuahua humping a pit bull. I've been waiting for this thread to show up.
I tried both positions and based my preferences based on what felt good. I thought my preference would be one thing and it would up being the opposite. You might know just from your own fantasies, but I wasn't sure until I tried.
I'll do both :icon_bigg depends on the mood. I like bigger and hairy guys. :icon_wink I'm a little guy - only 5'9" - so I find that they assume I'll be the bottom. I do enjoy bottoming, but sometimes I like to play trap and tie the bear and have my way with it. -AL
I must be a midget 'cause I'm about 3-4 inches shorter than you. :roflmao: Kidding. I don't know, really. In my deepest fantasies, I can sing "This Boy is a Bottom" repeatedly.
I agree to you, MisterTinkles. It is something you are comfortable with. As for me, I consider myself as pure bottom before. Ive never fancied being top back then. But I recently am seeing myself being top. So I think it is safe for me to say that I am versatile. I can be anything for my partner. I am now comfortable with both
Based on my masturbation experiences, I would say bottom. I also discovered sex this way in jr. high and high school with my friend. In my current relationship, I am the top because he prefers to bottom and is very fem.
I actually like both, and I would want to give to my partner as well. :3 I just happen to enjoy receiving a little bit more ^_^ ~ Adrienne
A little off to the side, if I'm to be honest about my current love life. I don't strongly lean one way or another, but I've been a top more often.
