so i made friends for the first time with a gay guy from my city we have so much in common and we are both very femme we like to only bottom never top ( i might top if the partner wants to but im still just bottom) and well he kinda likes me and i do a little but i was just flirting like i do with any guy and he thinks im in love and that im send from above now what should i do?? im telling him now that we should wait a little before going into that kind of relationship could it work??? anyone had the same thing before?? sex role is not my problem but we are both queens and i never heard about two queeny guys who got together its always a big guys with someone a little femme or two big guys never two femmes idk why ??
I don't know, but all I have to say is I'm not a big guy (though I'm a top) at all and I'm only attracted to femmes. Anyways, you shouldn't ask "can I?" Just do it! He seems to show interest in you.
Im scared his hopes in me are too big he see me as the very good perfect gay who knows everything I know im my own perfction But im scared this us is not going to work as more than friends Im scared i never have been with someone before like he is so intersted in my inner self they all like my outside mixed with the other stuff I mean if he just likes whats inside me which matters more what if he is not attracted to me just love me as a person Is that a bad thing ? Would we work?
There are lots of fem/queen couples. Hell, Dallas is mostly nothing but! If two drag queens can be happy together, I don't see why two fem's cant! There's more to life than sex.
Why the hell not? If you're happy and he's happy, who cares what your expressions are? Wuv is wuv. <3
Well, I have read some transmen who are tops and "make it work" without certain "accoutrements" in a way that brings pleasure to their partner, but not necessarily to themselves (at the same time). So, I guees y'all could make do somehow and make arrangements to satisfy whatever carnal needs y'all may have, but may have to get creative.
I don't get this.....two femmes can love each other, two butches also. So, why not? if everyone is happy no problems!
Can you guys compromise or talk about it? I can see how two tops would be a problem much more than two bottoms, so I'm having a hard time answering this question.
I don't see why not. There are toys, oral and a lot of other things you can do together. Sex is important but it's not the only important thing in a relationship.
