I am kind of an exclusive top, but I could be convinced to bottom maybe as a birthday gift for my boyfriend or something. It's not that I dislike anal stimulation, it's more that... I just never feel like taking it.
Virgin, but I would guess versatile with an affinity for being on top. I'd guesstimate the ratio to be 80/100%.
When I was in my relationship with my FWB, I was a total bottom. However, I had performance issues due to nerves. As a result, I am sure bottoming could have been enjoyed much better than it was. Also, two bottoms can have some fun with some of the same sensations at the same time. Not that I know from experience, but yeah..
I chose I don't know since I'm still a virgin (yeah, yeah, I'm already 20 and still a virgin---that's Asian culture for y'all. It sucks.) But I can imagine how PAINFUL it is to bottom so hopefully, for my first sexual experience, I'll be a top. I'd only bottom if I'm sure that it will be a pleasurable experience depending on who's going to top me. LOL!
I'm a virgin and voted don't know, and I honestly don't know. lol The ideal of bottoming doesn't bother me, so I'll try it, but I don't know if I'll like it.
thevenerable, being a bottom should not be a painful experience. If it's painful, something is not going right, I think. =) It should be comfortable, and good. Not painful. =] It'll be up to your partner (and you) to be gentle, to make it enjoyable. :icon_bigg