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Plans / resolutions for 2014?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by piano71, Dec 20, 2013.

  1. Kasey

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    Another addition is to increase my makeup skills and go to a comic or anime convention.
     
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    Continue to stay in shape, continue to seek out knowledge of pure wisdom, and help others out. (Optional) Find Mr. Right xD
     
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    +Come to terms with my gender identity
    +Come out to at least one friend about it
    +Tell my sister and maybe my dad that I'm gay or whatever
    +Eat healthier and live healthier
     
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    Oh, imma do that knowledge of pure wisdom thing with you ok?
     
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    -Do well in my exams in June.
    -Hopefully find somebody, not counting on it.
    -Improve my body and fitness.
    -Eat healthier and try to eradicate my acne.
    -Socialise more.
    -Achieve fluency in my other languages.
    -Play more sport.
    -Practice piano more.
    -Decide on a career to persue.
     
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    -get into shape and make use of that gym membership I've had for nearly 2 years now.
    - find my self a bf
    - come out to my family
    - travel a bit
    - try to find a new job that doesn't constantly leave me in a bad mood.

    It's going to be a busy year, good luck to all with any plans you may have.
     
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    1) Get part time job
    2) Manage my time better
    3) Come out to atleast a few more people
     
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    Make my first trip outside of the country if everything goes as planned. Looking to visit a friend up in Canada.
     
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    > Read at least 12 books
    > Take JLPT level 4 in december
    > Watch 12 movies (no list yet though)
    > Listen to a new artist every month
    > Lose 30 lbs
    > Pass off as male (i.e. be less swishy)
    > Keep this job for a year

    wasn't able to keep my new year's resolution for 2013 so i guess this should be added

    > try to stick to my 2014 resolutions

    (!)
     
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    おう!頑張って(がんばって) :d
     
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    Just realised that in this same thread last year I said something along the lines of 'Come out to my parents. Which probably won't happen!' and guess what? It did. So 2014 can only get better.

    My main resolution this year is to be a healthier me. I quit smoking back in September and I'd like to eat better (clean, raw foods) and maybe stop drinking altogether - since alcohol was a huge coping mechanism for me when I was going through tough periods in the closet. Plus, I can't just drink one or a couple; it always turns into a binge.

    Other than that, I'd just like to find the happier me, because he's still trapped inside there after years of repression in that regard. Even though I'm 'out', I still don't feel any more positive than I did a few months back and I think that's because I'm still pretty lost. I was one of the happiest, most confident kids you could ever come across and over time that was chipped away until I became who I am now. And in relation to the alcohol - he can only seem to escape when I'm intoxicated. :/
     
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  12. Get sick abs
    Get a gf
    Come out
    Eat more organic food
     
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    Eat better (less processed food more natural things)
    Finish Grad school
    Exercise at least 3x a week
    Lose at least 20lbs (kinda goes with the eating better and exercising)

    Basically I'd like to finish grad school and look like Commander Shepard...that's not too much to shoot for right? :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    - Get over self-consciousness
    - Work on keeping my temper
    - Pass my GCSEs
    - Make new friends
    - Travel (already got a trip around the Baltics booked!)
    - Grow a bit more ... not height! I want to be more secure in my personality and interests
    - Finally master the piano!

    Happy new year all :slight_smile:
     
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    Hopefully I'm going to start my transition~
     
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    I'm already sticking to my getting in shape plan.
    Also working on come out plan.
     
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    uh let us see
    I may actually put these in my phone cause I really want to get them done:
    • Improve GPA
    • Lose weight
    • Get admitted to Teacher Edu
    • Not get (too) addicted to drinking
    • Start portfolio
    • Be a better person
    • Grow spiritually
    • Become more financially stable
    • (Optional) Win lottery
     
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    1) Pass my A lvls and get into uni
    2) Read up for uni
    3) Get into shape / lose weight
    4) Become more sociable around people in my year
    5) Get contact details for people in my year
    6) Find some hobbies I can stick with
    7) Break some unhealthy habits like staying up until past 6am every night :grin:
    8) Grow more as a person (well that's just 1-7 rolled into 1 really)
     
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    In addition to my novelist resolution I would like to add:

    *be more honest, i.e. "out"
    *get some visible abdominal muscles!, i.e. become a general hunkyhunk hunk (^.^)~jk(sorta)
    *Crochet more
    *Create a GSA
    *Mmmmm