So how old were you when you lost your virginity?

I like the way you think. The moment I saw this thread pop up again, I didn't know whether I would want to start flaming people for caring about this so much, or make some cynical comment, but in the end I decided to just not care. As long as it happens some time, and love makes it happen, I'll be happy. If not, then I...I'll just be me, like seriously, who cares.

 

19.

Doesn't determine anyone's worth and purity is a stupid concept that needs to be shot like a cannibalistic cow. But using it in the context of "when you first had sex in some capacity" then I'm okay with it.

 

Virgin, but hoping to lose it before I turn 18

 

I'm 42 and have never dated.

:dry:

 

Uh. 12 or 13. It was around my birthday but I'm not sure if it was before or after.
It was a threesome with two dudes, one of whom is still a friend

My first orgasm was sometime around 2nd grade though. It was an accident but when you open that door it's really hard not to walk through it :lol:

 

I was... Oh wait, I'm still a virgin. Not even an intimate hug from someone A kiss? LOL! In my dreams!

 

I was 15 and with a guy. I was very immature but felt like that was the right time for me. I still remember the scent of the candles, the body cream I used and the cigar we smoked. Such a special time <3

 

I was 20 pushing 21... way too late! I got to the point where I thought I would never have sex in my life.

 

Those of you that are homosexual, do you count having sex with the opposite gender as losing your virginity?

 

16, though the idea of virginity and its loss are creepy.

 

16... With a guy.

 

I'm still a virgin even tho i dated a couple guy...it just doesn't feel right D:
never date a women tho

 

Yes, the whole virginity concept is somewhat stupid and is twisted so much, but people get what it means and until we have a better word, I'll stick with it. On that train of thought, I'm very much a virgin. I've kissed a girl (when I was like seven lol) and I did a gay chicken game, which I was surprisingly bad at... I kept twitching away at the last second and the straight guy would win :eek: and I recently found out that one of the most innocent of my friends lost it TWO years ago :dry:

 

um, what is "gay chicken"?

 

With a girl: 19
With a guy: 26

 

Hetero virginity: 14
Homo virginity: 25

 

Ironically, virginity is supposed to be penis-vagina only so most straight people would think us sexually active homosexuals are still virgins. So yeah, it would be kind of funny if gay people thought the opposite : P

I haven't done -anything- with either gender, but to me penis-in-vagina is just foreplay and not "real" or "complete" sex so yeah, I wouldn't count it myself.

 

This thread is incredible. Ultimately, why does it matter to anyone when they lost it? So that they can boast about it or something, or think of themselves as superior beings in comparison to those who lost it at a higher age, or never did at all?

 

Physically, I'm pretty much a virgin. I've held people (a hug, but longer; not quite a cuddle), but that's about it. Never had a kiss, and definitely never had any kind of sexual activity.

Mentally, well... I probably lost my mental virginity at, like, 7, LOL. That's what you get for finding old abandoned porn magazines in the woods.

I find the concept of virginity as sort of silly. I can understand why some people would want an experienced partner, but to me, I find the journey of physically and emotionally bonding more appealing, than having to relearn and rewire myself for my current partner.

Maybe I'm weird, but then again, I don't really care.

:lol:

 

Probably virgin4lyfe, assuming I can't find anybody before it's too late!

What? I'm picky, ok?!