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What are big turn OFF's for you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Owen, Dec 13, 2010.

  1. Beertruck

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    Especially of the German variety.
     
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    Bad Hygiene Is a turn off i don't want a guy smelling like Cat Fish and Cabbage.

    Drinkers- I said in another thread iwant a guy that has fun with out drinking all the time

    Tattoos 1 or 2 tattoos are fine depending on location and size. I think its a turn off when a guy has sleeves and tattoos scatted all over the place i don't want a guy that looks like a walking comic book.


    Smokers - I agree smokers smell bad and they have that horrible cough that sounds like a old car starting up in the winter time. And they are slowly ruining their lungs

    No Drives License- i can't stand guys that don't have a license and they need a ride everywhere.

    Feminine guys there are two different types but the ones im talking about wears make up gets a fake tan and have female facial features.

    Drama Queens-I hate guys who are full of Drama and spend everyday worrying about their haters. So what,Who cares
     
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    Won't date a smoker.
    Bad hygiene is a deal breaker.
    Crossdressing-to each their own. Just not attracted to guys in dresses. Fun people though.
    Anyone who has cats. Not that I dislike them or anything, I'm just severely allergic.
    Not turned on by really muscular guys. I like average to small guys.
    Drugs
    Guys who are not financially responsible. They don't have to be wealthy, just not be in debt up to their eyeballs.
    Someone that is rude to people.
    Anyone looking for a one night stand.--I know. I'm sure I miss out on a lot of life, but hey that's me.
    Cursing in public excessively.
    Extremely hairy guys--I'm talking chest hair blending with facial hair kind of hairy. Manscaping is a must with me.
     
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    Shallowness and arrogance are my big two.
     
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    those who smoke
    those with long hair
    those who drink
    those who party too much
    those who are arrogant and cocky
    those who are TOO built and muscle-y
    those who shave their junk, chests, arms, and/or legs
    those with long nails
    those who cross-dress
    those who are only looking for sex
    those who have bad hygiene
    those who are too feminine
    those who are rude
    those who crave attention

    wow thats a long list lol.
     
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    Hahaha this made me LOL for some weird reason but than when I reflected on it I was all like "yeah...I'd hate that."

    My only big turn off is hypocrisy....oh, and fake contacts. They fail.
     
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    - Excessive profanity in public (my brother is a sailor and does this...drives me NUTS)
    - Treating wait staff or other hospitality workers like shit (in other words...if you snap at a waiter in front of me? Check please.)
    - Loud and rude
    - No sense of humor
    - Dense (unable to read simple nonverbal language)
    - People who are intolerant of animals (you don't have to like them, just tolerate them)
    - Flamboyance
    - Arrogance that is not tempered with a sense of self-deprecation
    - Catty/overly dramatic behavior. Don't like it in friends, can't stand it in SOs.
    - Hard drugs or alcohol to excess
     
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    ~Fake tan
    ~People who dye their hair and don't take care of the roots
    ~People who are shallow and superficial
    ~Dishonesty
     
  9. British Lad

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    -people who smoke
    -people who over-drink
    -people who are shallow
    -people who are dumb
    -people who are cocky
    -people who are obese
    -people who are dirty
    -people who are overly feminine
    -people who are cheaters
    -people who have a fake tan
    -people who have no sense of humour
    -people who are Druggys
    -people who are too muscle
    -people who have no pride
    -people who are not coming out of the closet ever
    -people who are female (no offence but girls don't do anything for me, that's why I am gay)
    -people who cross dress
    -people who are rude
     
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    * Inflated egos. I expect you to love you, but it's gonna take me some time to get to know you, OK? :slight_smile:

    * Being terminally slow. I don't mind if you're not overly intelligent, but at least TRY to improve your mind a bit, OK?

    * If you've ever said anything along the lines of "I'm usually pretty quiet, but get a couple margaritas in me, and look out!" or "It wasn't a party if you remember how you got home"...no thanks.

    * Using terms like "boy pussy" and "mangina". Ugh.

    Lex
     
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    I have a friend who does this and it literally makes me want to knock him upside the head. :dry: I restrain myself, but it's a fine line.
     
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    -smoker of pot or cigarettes
    -no career aspirations (aka i don't wanna date someone that plans to be a waitress for her whole life)
    -listens exclusively to country music
    -long nails
    -chapped lips
    -gaged ears- i'm all about piercings, but no gages please
     
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    Ego and Drama.
    Our people are famious for Drama and I can't stand it.
    When someone is hot and knows it, I want nothing to do with them.

    Once someone came up to me and said: "Well, I'm hot so I know you want me."
    "Actually you just became ugly, go find yourself an easy fuck because you'd have to work for this one and I know would want you to hurt yourself."

    I know people aren't gonna like this but: Smokers.
    I've dated smokers before and they always smell like smoke and taste like smoke when you kiss them, just a turn off for me
     
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    Man, all you beautiful folks are convincing me to stick with "quit smoking" as my New Year's resolution. :icon_wink I hate to give myself a disadvantage on the field.
     
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    lol

    But a big turn off would be if he never wants to leave the house and do anything, if he never showers, if he likes to cheat, if he wants sex all the time, if he wants others to join us more often then us being alone, if he likes to sleep alone, if he can't keep track of anything, or if he cares more about himself then us.
     
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    Tattoos, monobrows, OTT muscles, really thin lips ~.
     
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    I've been on dates with some cutties that smoked and they just smell like it, or they lite up in the car with the windows up and then when you kiss them they just taste like, ugh.

    Plus its just healthier
     
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    :roflmao:
    Thank you Harve