I'm not... haven't been for a while *grin* but it did take me until the night of my 20th birthday to not be.
Your 20th...... how did u do it? lol Nope im not, lost ma Virginity when i was........ omg too young, anyway DONT DO IT! till your absolutly ready! it sux otherwise.
Well there was this guy, and I had him sleep over after my birthday dinner, and then in the morning my parents left the house and we... Oh you mean how did I "last" so long? It wasn't by choice, let me tell you! *grin*
How would one define "virginity". (dont give me webster bullcrap just the thread owner's definition please)
That is a very good point. Is it any sort of sexual contact with another person (so just using hands)? What about oral? Or does it have to be penetrative? If so, receiving, giving or either? What about sex with different genders - gay virginity and straight virginity? What about stuff you may have done with friends when you were a kid? What about (for those who have had the misfortune) abuse by an adult while a kid, or rape? We probably all have different opinions on that. We may think we have lost our virginity more than once if we consider different forms of sexual contact. I do - by hand when I was 10, oral when I was about 11 and penetrative with my current partner.
...then for a few of us, we get to lose our virginity all over again with the same partner... but different anatomy... something to look forward to, I think
ok then to be more precise about my sexual activity... hence i must now wear red latex to my wedding Hand - 50+ Oral - 50+ Penatrative - 30+ (giving 3) (And those are diff ppl and all male) i wonder if i could get away with devil horns instead of a vale...
Uh... I think the numbers the first poster gave were AGE at which they first engaged in _blank_. Not number of times they've engaged in _blank_. Cuz if you were fucking guys when you were 3... that's pretty fucked up. *grin*
Jo, that's so awesome. I never thought of it like that. But to answer the main question in the thread: I'm a virgin *gasp* I've had plenty of boyfriends, a lot of whom really wanted to have sex: so I can safely say it's a choice. Mind you, I'm sexually active (after all, I'm only human), however, I view my virginity (penetrating/pentrated) in a high regard. It's my innocence (atleast thats what I tell the police ). I guess I'm just waiting for the right person to come around. But then again I'm a very pro-relationships sort of guy. Sleeping around with randoms just isn't me. I don't feel a pressing need to have sex with someone I don't care for. Oh - and for the record (since someone else posted this) my first *real* experience with a guy (not mucking around when you're little) was when I was 12.
well if it was age.. im sorry i did numbers.... must be the lack of sleep again.. anyway.. yeah fromt he age of like...................... 14 ono i had done pretty much everything.
oh and Deja....i those were years not times...lol...it was 10 years, 12 years....not 10 times 12 times.... If i only masturbated 10 times i think id die of over-horniness...lol
I can just imagine the scene as medical professionals look over your corpse... "Yup, it's another one of those..." :eusa_snoo ...... I''m 16, I'm a virgin, and no one's ever come out to me (well, one person, but she was bi, and she was a she). When I was younger I used to masturbate with a friend of mine, but we never touched each other (he was incredibly straight, and I hadn't begun to look at guys at that age).
I'm not a virgin. I was 17 when I had my first time. It was with my long term boyfriend. I've slept with about.... four guys, five guys maybe? Oral, hand, and I'm the giver. There is no way I will be on the recieving end at anytime in my life... Anyway, I feel I've given too much information already so moving on.