LGBT Later in Life would be a good forum for you. Best wishes to you in your journey!
Dear @razorsharp, yes, life can be incredibly challenging, particularly when you feel us stuck and it seems like there's no solution. But I...
I suspect there are people who have managed to set aside their same-sex attractions. I believe that because it's basically what I did for decades....
Hi @razorsharp - I'm no expert, but I can't think of anyone here on EC successfully suppressing their desires. It seems like people are more...
The end game is not entirely up to me. My hopes and intent are to keep my marriage and family together. Thinking of whether and how to come out...
@Nickw , your post is brilliant and helpful, thank you. My wife can be angry at whatever and whomever she wants, her anger is not mine to manage....
@old tacoma, that is a very nice tribute, and it shows how important it is that we help each other where we can. I suspect your friend got a lot...
@quebec / David, thank you sharing your story. I do better with most anything if I've thought about it ahead of time. If I wait for the right...
Hi @justaguyinsf - Your points are good, all of them. I especially take to heart your caution about bringing our kids into the difficulties...