I'm struggling with the same thing myself, and have told exactly 2 people. I'm not exactly struggling with what I am. I'm fairly certain I am...
It does help somewhat, to know others have had it come about in a similar way. I don't know that I was in denial so much. I guess for a long time...
You can appreciate an erotic image or the sexuality of it without wanting. Just like you can appreciate an attractive person (inside or out)...
I find it odd to be here at this point in my life. All my life I've been attracted to men. Never even considered being with a woman that I can...