I'm in my seventies. At the risk of sounding like a broken record, as this is something I tend to say when I post, you still (probably) have half...
"No porn ever" is a boundary begging to be broken. He shouldn't have asked it of you, and you shouldn't have agreed. Have the two of you...
"It was a friendship that became a secret." Brokeback Mountain (2005) is a powerful movie, not least for its assured but sensitive direction by...
Even today, I remember how painful it was when I ended my first relationship way back in 1981! (For those keeping score at home, that's 39 years...
I know I've said this before, but folks in crisis/turmoil/conflict seldom think about it: what you are experiencing today may feel...
Also a nice break from rom-com movies, Monsoon (2020) with Henry Golding. It's about a gay man who returns to Vietnam for the first time since he...
That's a momentum-filled post. It's as if you won't be going back into the closet anytime soon. :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: Congrats!
I met my now-partner in a computer game in 2007. When we agreed that we were both interested in possibly meeting in person, it turned out that we...
Welcome! Why don't you tell us a little about yourself—only what you're comfortable sharing—and maybe a question or two you might have about...
Outside the US, the only countries I have been to multiple times and still can't wait to go back are England and Portugal. London is culturally...
>But I feel if I was ten years younger I probably would’ve felt more comfortable with my sexuality >growing up and maybe pursued other boys. So,...
My longest friend in the world is 73. He never came out to his mother that he is gay. Many years ago, I told him that I thought he was making a...
You're awfully vague about what's wrong with your sex life—it's "bad," you're "struggling" and you're "not good at it"—so it's hard to make...
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> I've scoured the web about the coming out process, found online books about being gay and watched a ton of videos on youtube about coming > out....
My partner and I have discussed the basics—neither wants a funeral; both want cremation with ashes scattered on the lake where we live; each is...
Congrats on the new job!
I dunno if this will be helpful, but another thread on the front page gave me this idea to suggest: why not make yourself a "bucket list" of...
Hi, BigCat - Your story is well told. I think one piece of good news that nobody has mentioned yet is that, while your situation seems...
Having never been to a gay potluck dinner, but now suddenly wanting to go to one, what did you take?! Was it stressful? Were you keeping one eye...
