My apologies if this has been written about before, but I could use some advice. I've married to a man, but have been involved with a woman...
Kinsey, I'm in the exact same boat as you. I have a husband of 15 years, 3 children and a gf on the side. I've decided to stay in my marriage...
Lately, I've become closer and closer to acknowledging that I'm a lesbian. As for stereotypes, I look nothing like what you'd think a lesbian...
I'm in the same boat too, so feel free to talk as well. I'm 41 and have three kids, but know deep down I'm a lesbian and can't figure out what to...
I know exactly what you're saying, Puzzled. I'm 41 and just figuring this out too. My husband is a great provider, a very nice guy, never has a...
This is a great thread! I wear what's comfortable, jeans, sweatshirts, etc., but I also wear make-up and curl my long hair. I realized I don't...
Hi Puzzled, I practically wrote the same post as you a month or so back. I'm also in a marriage with a man, but have been sexually involved with...
I've been with a woman for a year (I'm 41) but I'm still married to a man. It's taken me quite awhile to realize being with a woman is where I...
I'm sort of in the same boat. While my family isn't judgmental, everything as I know it and my children know it would change completely. My son...
The other night, after a couple glasses of wine, I told my husband I thought I could be a lesbian, but wasn't sure. (I am sure, but not ready to...
I recently had dreams of changing my appearance to seem less femme. But last night I had a whopper of a dream that I was sexually with an old bf...
Hi Everyone, As I go through this journey of self discovery and trying to figure out if I'm really a lesbian and not "going through a phase" or...
Wildside, do you find yourself fantasizing about how things will be when/if you leave? I make lists in the middle of the night (just mentally) of...
Sorry for the double post earlier. I didn't see that it had posted. But thank you for the responses.
I'm in this exact same predicament and these thoughts keep me up at night. My husband and I own a home and still have a child living at home. If...
I've been losing sleep over this very issue. We own a home and have children together. (One is still living at home.) If I leave, I would need...
That's exactly why I went to a therapist in the first place. I told mine that I enjoy being with women sexually and have no interest in my...
Yesterday, I told my doctor about what I was feeling and questioning him about whether or not he thought I was a lesbian. I know only I can...
Thank you for all the support and kind words. I sort of had a realization the other night, but haven't come to any conclusions. It's so...
I just recently found this website, so I'm sorry for all the questions. At what point do you decide that you are a lesbian? I've been married...
