I'm in a similar boat. I'm probably bi, but identified as gay since puberty, always with caveats. Once I fell in love at 17, it became difficult...
What would you say about a man whose first vivid sexual fantasy was of his female cousin when he was 8 years old? We bathed, showered and play...
I agree. Why on earth however do you think someone like me would be so confused? My heart and identity lean gay, but my body wants women. How...
My current therapist thinks that because my living situation, self-esteem and mental health are so poor at this time, that it'd be more prudent to...
I'm quite "sissy" at times and feel like a gay little boy, basically. My masculinity's been insulted my whole life, and I've been called...
Nothing, I'm afraid. I'm totally limp. The moment I think of being with a woman... that changes drastically.
This isn’t directed at me, but I wanted to say that this is great. To be honest, I don’t think of their face, just their body and the whole act...
What do you make of my own romantic longings for certain other men? The feelings are very real, although I don’t know how to interpret them...
Do guys irl ever turn you on physically? I shouldn't think fantasies would interfere with your innate attractions. The very fact that you're...
In contrast to my previous post, I checked out from a dreamy male cashier yesterday who made my heart melt. He was exactly my type, and he had a...
That is very interesting, and very puzzling. It would seem that you’re a transitional phase between who you thought you were and who you are. If...
Coming to terms with one's sexuality is a process, and if you're not straight (even then you can be confused), it's often more drawn-out,...
1. First off, I can only imagine the level of pain and anxiety you've had to endure keeping this a secret in a culture as oppressive as the one...
This certainly poses a conundrum... Do you truly desire that something, or do you merely like the idea of desiring it (say, for normative reasons)?
I suppose I was thinking that arousal is baked into desire. If you are aroused by something, even if it's unethical or harmful, it's still a...
Sexual identity is simply what label you adopt, while sexual orientation is what you actually desire and are aroused by. I identified as gay most...
Society has a lot of stereotypes about bisexuals and a need for black and white monosexualities. I think it’s very important to remind yourself...
I'd recommend picking up a copy of David Burns' "Feeling Good," which has helped me a lot in combating my own self-esteem issues and fears about...
As my last post implies, I do not (usually) find women in public attractive. I’ve become more aware of women’s sexuality in public, maybe...
That makes me feel bit better. I was out today at Walmart actually, and I noticed like six young straight couples, and I couldn't see myself in...
