Long post, but interesting. Some of your experiences, I can relate to a lot. Wanting a partner to be a sort of intimate cuddle buddy rather than...
Wow what you write sounds so much like me, especially a couple years ago when I was in full-swing questioning mode all the time. I kept thinking I...
I definitely know the feeling of not being sure whether I like a friend romantically, or want to be like her. Sometimes it fades in and out and...
If you think people will respond badly if you tell them what you are feeling, then wait. Especially if you yourself are not sure of how you feel....
I think you're gay, and you know that on some level, but now you're re-questioning all that. I do that sometimes, especially a couple years ago; I...
Re: Very confused. Is this a normal experience? Did anyone go through something simil Well, if you don't feel so much sexual attraction, there's...
I'll see if I can explain this: I have more or less made up my mind that I'm definitely not straight, but I've never been in any romantic...
Well, I would recommend not breaking up with your boyfriend, since you seem decently happy with him and you don't know what you would gain by...
I guess you could start by letting him know that you are questioning your sexuality, and that you are uncomfortable/unsure about physical contact,...
Hmm... to me you sound possibly lesbian or bi... Have you heard of the terms "gray-romantic" or "gray-sexual?" It means you are only occasionally...
Personally I would not care if a potential girlfriend was trans and hadn't transitioned or whatnot. There are plenty who think like this I am...
Demisexual homoflexible-romantic, if you ask me. if that makes sense.
When I was in elementary school I refused to wear most girls' clothes, especially anything pink. I bought my clothes in the boys' section because...
This is complicated, but it actually sounds a lot like me. I've never heard anyone else say it, but I do that too with getting nervous around...
It is possible to be romantically attracted to people (cuddling, kissing, etc.) without wanting sex. Maybe you have romantic attractions for guys...
Well, it could be the remnants of a transitional phase--I doubt it's ever really fun to realize you fall in a category that isn't really lauded by...
Are they generally accepting of this type of thing, your friends? I have also worried about this, but more in the context of my parents thinking...
I can relate to this--I'm still kind of questioning; I'm not that interested in sex; my parents (at least my mom) don't really believe in...
Royal pain, that is. I guess what I'd do is tell him in a very calm, controlled voice that maybe that's true, but don't hold out hope for it, and...
Hmm...I guess I'd say try and back away from her. If she doesn't want to be around you, I don't think you can drag her kicking and screaming out...
