HI Mate We are all here for you. As much as you may want to come clean about everything, I think you may also need to consider how much...
Hi Tx Duke, Congratulations on taking that huge step with your parents. It's great that you know they will be there for you. My experience has...
Hi Tx, Before coming out to my wife of 25 years, I told my brother, although I hadn't intended it that way. We are fairly close, but I didn't...
Hi Guys Thought it was about time I put my bit in. So many times I want to respond to postings but I am sorry to say that lack of time, a...
Hi Jeff I have been there. Last year at 54 I left my wife after 25 years of marriage. When I finally came out to myself, it took me 18 months of...
Hi Penpal. I left the family home last year. I stressed and worried myself sick about so many things that never eventuated. Learn meditation,...
(*hug*) (*hug*) Sending the BIGGEST HUGS your way my brother. Look after yourself but please come back for more hugs and support when required
Thanks guys. You both have stated some valid points. I really appreciate your input. It is so funny that I would be so good at giving...
Handle fell off the closet door Hello my EC friends. After all your help I thought I should provide an update of where I am at. Well,...
Hey BMC77 Please add me to your friend list. I too, want to be here for you and others as we all go through the sometimes rough seas. I...
Hi Gaysibling, That was very well put and came through as you intended - a very considerate and genuine interest to offer helpful advice...
Tell me about it. My wife never works saturdays and had to go into work today. Having the extra time only makes me think too much and I...
Hi Biguy50 I don't think there is anything you need to apologise for. You were honest about your dreams. The more people share the more the...
Hi Craig Just thought I would send en email to you as it has been a couple days since your last post. I know you said you want to come out to...
Hi I am 53 now and still have wet dreams every so often. Always with a guy having some sort of sex. It is always intense and d I usually wake...
Hi Craig, I am in the same position you are in right now and planning on coming out to my wife of 24 years in a few days. I am also in the...
Congratulations my friend. I felt your pain as you were planning on coming out to your kids. I am so touched reading your story and by the...
Thanks to everyone for your well thought out responses, good wishes, support, and sharing your own experiences. I feel like I just had a big EC...
Hi Everyone This last week has been really tough as I have been working toward a deadline I have set for my own coming out to my wife, in about...
Your storey is so familiar. My kids are 13 and 16, and they are why I am still in my marriage today - thinking that I am doing what is best for...