Two possible thoughts... First, you masturbate with a death grip. By doing this, no other means of sex (oral or anal) have that degree of...
Never had any inclination towards spanking or being spanked, but then I saw an ad from a guy who lived nearby looking for someone to be spanked...
Playboy... do you seriously think the doctor hasn't seen something like this before? Remember, he's had fingers up guys' butts, held their balls...
For a long time I sort of had the attitude of "well, if my wife finds out, the worrying will be over". Not sure if I was leaving bread crumbs for...
Google "Making Mixed Orientation Marriages Work" and see what you find.
You may have developed a "death grip" when masturbating and the pressure you get from masturbating just can't be replicated from vaginal, anal or...
From a physical standpoint, I like both. However when I have sex with my wife, I'm making love. When I have sex with a guy, I'm having sex. I've...
If she asks make it sound like it's old news: "Am I gay? Of course I am. I came out years ago. What rock have you been hiding under?"
Just thought I'd chime in since I'm a fellow Masshole... I went to a gay therapist and he did nothing for me. I was just billable hours to him....
get in your car and drive around practicing saying the words "It's not going to work. I want a divorce." Keep saying it until it flows out of your...
I can tell you that my wife was more than angry that I never shared with her that I was bisexual. I had know since I was a teenager and told her...
Don't hold it so close to your eye. It's that easy. Here's what I do: -tilt head back -hold bottle in right hand -use middle finger to pull lower...
Nerdbrain, I think a lot of guys can compartmentalize love and sex. When I was younger and "straighter" I had sex with many females without the...
Getting the conversation started is the hardest part. What I suggest you do is write down 3-4 lines of conversation that would start the...
Are you gay or bi? The reason I ask is whether or not you have a sexual attraction to your wife. If you do then that's fine. But if you don't,...
After seeing two marriage counselors and two therapists, here's my suggestions for you: 1 - Write down what you want to get out of counseling....
Boy did you just miss an opportunity for a "non-messy" declaration. When she expressed her disgust you should have thrown in "glad to hear that...
You don't have to tell anyone and if it ever comes up you can always say "You didn't know I was bi? That's funny, everyone else did."
I know "follow your dream" is probably the most idealistic answer you could get, but think fora minute. Years down the road, when you have a...
You were probably too young at the time to associate your "playing" with homosexuality. However what I think in general is that most of us [older]...
