I've gotten into the "I'll never find a person like X" type of thinking before. First after I grew apart from my best friend in college, and then...
Hi everyone, I first signed up for the forum back in 2012. I was 27. I had spent nearly 10 years confused about my sexuality and I felt stuck....
Live for today is a good mindset as sometimes getting too caught up in worrying about the future or ruminating about the past can get you stuck....
I know that the gay community has the reputation for being very promiscuous. But there are definitely guys out there that are not like that. I...
I know how it feels to be in your 20s with zero dating experience and feel like you'll never have it. That was me just a few years ago. When...
I had a heartbreak two years and four months ago. It was only an eight month relationship, but it meant a lot to me and was a huge turning point...
I second what daneilo21 said. Though it is an impressive list you've come up with and shows you are very introspective, ultimately I think you are...
It's easy for some people to figure out their sexuality, and not easy for others. I (and perhaps you) fall in the latter category. It's an ongoing...
I suppose I'd do it again too. I really did love the guy. For eight whole months all the anxieties that had plagued me for years were finally...
Thanks MfromA! It makes me happy to hear that this thread has helped you. That's the other reason I turn to this website :-) 20 is actually low,...
I'm interested in this too. I have a fetish attraction involving transformation and muscle growth, but only in men. Female transformation, which...
Ugh, so long ago that I wrote this post. I wish I was in a better place. It has been more than a year since I got dumped. I have done everything...
Hey all, One of my major issues, I think, is that I have a scarcity mindset when it comes to gay dating. If I could only convince myself that...
It's possible that your inexperience at sex and relationships might count against you for SOME people. But different people have different...
Thought I would post an update on this ancient thread. It has now been more than a year since my heart got broken. I'm still not over it. It...
When I first joined this site early in 2012, one of my main issues was my doubts about whether I could be intimate/affectionate with a guy and...
I've been getting down lately about dating. When I first started dating guys I fell for the second guy I went out with. We had an amazing (for me)...
Hello all, I thought I would give an update. It has been almost eight months since my break up. That means we have been apart almost as long as...
Yeah. I haven't talked to him since mid-February. I hope to eventually be friends because he's honestly a good person and we get along great (or...
Thanks Filip. You seem to be really good at making me feeling better, haha. I do tend to feel drawn to guys. I went to an event over the...
