Uh - if I pee blood I'm heading to the emergency room prontolino. I'm not waiting for it to clear up on its own! Yikes. Glad the antibiotics...
Me: I need to tell you something. I'm gay. Him: oh, uh. So you THINK you're gay? Me: no, I'm sure. I am most certainly gay. Him: we'll have you...
Yuck. Scotch?
I was in a similar situation. I came out to my wife fIve years ago. We've been tOgether 17 years. We tried the whole "make it work" thing but I...
Filip - I'm not suggesting that when one comes out they must immediately change all their friends and start socializing with people they wouldn't...
Does it really take desperation for you to actively take steps to be happy?
I used to volunteer on a suicide hotline. What you say in that note is valid - for you. But its not designed to help him and would probably not...
Also - don't have sex on the first date ;-)
I play the guitar.
Sounds like you expend a tremendous amount of energy on "Side issues" (afaid of bring gay, neo nazi, rapist(?!)). I'm no professional but I would...
The best way to sort this out is to talk about it with someone you trust (a therapist is a great option!). You say you've "tried" to be gay. Why...
Probably one of the hardest things I've ever done. Also, probably one of the most rewarding.
Have you talked with your wife about where your relationship is heading? Different folks can find a different balance for all this. I think the...
Go for it!
I really identify with this. Except for me it was playing the guitar. I never really did the whole social dating thing in highschool. I just...
As with any large group, I think it's easy to over generalize. What is the "gay community" really anyway? It's not like gay people are some...
It can be. But that's really up to you Sun. If one is hanging out in places where random meaningless hookups occur, that;s what one will find....
I actually figured (quite honestly) that I couldn't be gay because I didn't fit the stereotype. Maybe it was a convenient excuse, but it...
I've met most of the guys (there haven't been that many! lol) online at dating (NOT hookup) sites.
Cap Juluca When was the last time you bought flowers, and for whom?
