When I realized I was lesbian I was 16. I was OK with it, as a matter of fact I thought it was great to be gay. But now as an adult, I still...
I can relate to your feelings. I have been puzzled for years by the fact that I am attracted to good-looking men, but had no interest in...
You've made some very good points - as you usually do! You are so open about your experiences and feelings that you are really helpful to the...
I think that last part is very true - women are used to men being proactive, and with women of course, both have to share the responsibility to be...
I can relate to Jahiem's problems. It seems very hard to start a relationship with a woman. Most women who are bi or lesbian act as if they are...
Thanks for posting that detailed story, TallSlender. I have gone through similar experiences in my marriage, including the feeling you described...
What you are saying is very typical for a bisexual. It is quite possible for you to be attracted to your fiance and other women at the same time....
I think you have to face the fact that you are in a similar situation as I am.. I would not say you are lesbian - you are definitely bisexual but...
Welcome, Scotty! You will find there is an avalanche of people here who find themselves in the same situation - always aware that they were gay,...
I have a very similar situation. I am also married and have come to realize many things. Just yesterday I kissed my husband and thought that I...
This is the way I think it would happen: I am "looking" right now but I have not told my husband that. If I find a woman who wants to start some...
Thank you for your detailed reply. You and I seem to be experiencing exactly the same feelings and thoughts. Although I enjoy being with my...
I am very similar to you. I consider myself a biromantic lesbian. I like men enough to enjoy their company and get emotionally involved with...
I forgot to say in my earlier post that I do not think that a relationship between two women is somehow not equal to a hetero relationship. Far...
Thank you for your observations, JT. On the subject of cheating, I feel that being with another woman is not cheating because it is a need that...
I agree with what you are saying 100%. What qualifies as a loving intimate relationship is really lonely because of the hidden things - that's...
I have felt exactly like you do. I am in a very confused state and don't know the answer to my problems. But this forum has helped me understand...
You're right - this is a very good discussion and an important one. EC and the people on here who open up about their lives have been a godsend to...
don't have any advice to offer you, JT. In some ways you are "in limbo" like I am. I had a wonderful courtship with my husband, but oddly...
I can relate very much to what you are saying. What you have posted is the story of my life up to two years ago. As many people on this forum...
