Completely on board with what you're saying. The fear of judgement disappeared in that safe, accepting environment. Being in a place where being...
Definitely think it's tied to my own internal homophobia. How? Well, I kinda move through life trying not to stick out too much, aiming to just...
Soon after I had my first homoerotic dreams I created my first post on here. There was just too many signs that I was into men to ignore. It...
Have you thought about why you cling to the idea? What draws you to the idea of settling down with a woman?
@shon how would you describe your attraction to men and women? I note you said that you have some occasional doubts.
Was this a recent development? It's probably a sign that as you become more accepting of your same-sex attraction, your internalized homophobia is...
Over the past several months, I've been gradually growing more comfortable with my attraction to men, all in private. I hesitated to fully...
Would you still consider yourself bisexual with this description?
This seems to be very common. A few guys on this thread have posted the same. It seems to be part of the process of fully accepting your...
A 5 minute mile is quite a challenge. I used to do 10k runs when I was playing football. I stopped when my knees started to bother me. I'm limited...
It seems natural that it will follow with time. For the moment I'm content with accepting that I like men and it's perfectly ok. Thank you...
@tearingtherose Thanks for contributing. I agree with a lot of your post. I think when the defence mechanisms diminish it's allow for a more...
When the sex drive is low, most people experience a period where sexual desires are less intense. Based on the description provided in your post,...
Since I've acknowledged and accepted my attraction to men, I've begun to notice men more frequently in public. I believe that prior to this...
Welcome to EC! First off, bravo for having the courage to be open with your wife about your feelings. That's a huge step and shows a lot of...
I empathize with your situation; it sounds incredibly challenging to manage. What makes you feel that now is the right time to pursue this change?...
Thanks for sharing this. Your description is really beautiful.
Thank you. It's still early days and I'm sure I will have setbacks. It sometimes feels exciting just thinking of the possibilities that await,...
@Searching2022 this is for sure the longest I have gone feeling comfortable that I'm gay. I have navigated the world in this mindset the last...
Arousal has been a challenge for a while. It honestly feels like a chore.
