Anal should not hurt if your partner goes slowly and you use plenty of lube. As others have said, you need to go slowly. Your partner should enter...
So, so true! Once I accepted my true desires and feelings, I completely and utterly lost interest in women and realised that the only sexual and...
Exactly the same with me. When I was young, I could get aroused by women but always worried about achieving/maintaining arousal. Once I accepted...
It can take quite a time to undo the societal conditioning. I think that the answer is to develop a relationship with a guy first before any...
I agree with what Colm says. In my opinion if you want to live openly and authentically as a gay man the only real option is to separate....
Yes I really feel for you. There are some bigoted ignorant people around. I feel that generally these sort of views are dying in the West and...
I entirely agree with Chip and you. I am very sceptical that someone can have a different romantic orientation from their sexual orientation....
I agree with you. It was due to societal conditioning. Eventually I could not bottle it in and then began to see how beautiful it could be but it...
I just realised that I was excited by men. From the age of 12 I used to watch men and worried that this would be noticed. I thought that my...
It’s funny what different experiences we have. I always knew what my attraction to guys meant but tried to hide and repress it until I could no...
Sounds nice. I would suggest a 3.5 inch butt plug to get started and then move on to anal beads and a realistic dildo. Vibrating toys can also...
I am in exactly the same boat. It took me a while to accept that I was gay but once I did I lost all attraction to women and once I had...
Perhaps coming out to her would not go so badly? It sounds as though she has some awareness that you are gay, otherwise she would not have said...
Thanks Lek. That is good advice and I completely agree. I am sure that there are aspects of each other we will need to get used to in living...
Yes there will be bound to be some adjustments but I agree that it will be so exciting. Love the thought of waking up next to my guy every morning...
I agree with you, OGS. I have a large group of fellow gay friends with whom my BF and I do most of our socializing and you could not find kinder...
Thanks so much, Joolz. Appreciate that and, yes you’re right. Am now really excited to be about to live with my wonderful BF. Do hope that you...
Thanks! You’re quite right. Was probably overthinking things. Moving in together is definitely the right thing and very exciting too.
Really helpful thoughts. There is in fact nothing to lose. My mate is a great guy and we are hyper compatible. I would not want to upset him and...
Thanks for the encouragement, Contented. You’re right - it’s bound to be an eye opener and actually I cannot wait. Have dreamt of living with a...
