Betterhelp has a pride counselling section for online therapy. They are USA based I think but available in UK too. You may need to try more than...
It sounds like it was a very difficult time for you but you have come out of it happier. Thank you for being so open.
Hi, I was wondering if you don’t mind me asking, what made you decide to separate given that you loved your husband so much? I imagine it must...
Thank you for being so open. I too feel I am questioning myself interminably and in denial at times. My life would be much easier if I hadn’t...
Ok thank you. I haven’t worked out how to do anything technical yet like follow etc!
Thank you this is very supportive. You’re right it has rocked my world. I was interested in your comment But being congruent with myself is an...
I am married ( twice as long as you!) Realised last year I was attracted to women. Have told my husband but we are still together and I’m not sure...
I also just wanted to say thank to you all for taking the time and caring enough to reply. I was surprised how supported I felt by you all.
I think your suggestion to reframe is helpful as is not going behind his back. I need to take this slowly I think but still explore what it means...
Your comment about a backlog of repressed feelings is so true. It’s as though I’m suddenly on alert and noticing women in a way I haven’t done...
Thank you for this. I suppose at the moment I don’t know where this is taking me so it’s difficult to give my husband the reassurance he wants....
I can’t even identify with the word lesbian at the moment. I feel ashamed and I am so unsure. And choosing is so difficult. Will it be better or...
I’m really not sure. I know I love my husband and I don’t want to hurt him. I don’t really look at other men and haven’t done for years. I do look...
I think it's really common to questionyourself, to wonder if you really are gay when you have never kissed a woman. I felt exactly the same. The...
Thank you all. I panicked after posting this and asked for it to be removed but I’m sort of glad it’s still there after getting your replies. I...
I only a few months ago admitted to myself that I have been attracted to women all my life . I am 52. I was shocked at how I have repressed it...