Friendly blowjob

I've been known to wake my fiance up with one on occasion. But he knows not to wake me up before my alarm goes off unless he plans on dying that day.

 

I’ve actually done this with a friend a bunch of times

 

I can’t answer this between men, but I have a fair bit of experience where two women are concerned. The answer is yes, it does change it. Not necessarily for the worse, but its sometimes fine, sometimes takes a bit of emotional management, and sometimes it’s a disaster. Some people can cross that line fairly easily without any effects but not everyone can.

 

No it didn’t change anything. We hook up a lot until I moved to a different state.

 

I’d more likely be the one to offer the blow job.

 

How many friendships have you tested this way? And how close were you before it got sexual?

I think the longer you have been in a platonic friendship with someone, the higher the risk of it going badly. So if it’s a lifelong friendship, I wouldn’t chance it. Someone you’ve only known for a couple of years? Go for it.

The other thing to worry about as well as sex changing the friendship, is what happens if one of you wants to stop having sex in the future. That’s a different sort of challenge.

 

Only one . We were like best friends in high school and we were neighbors honestly I feel like it didn’t change anything because there was no emotion attached to it for either of us. I don’t think either of us even considered we were maybe bi or gay we just did it and it was like an unspoken agreement that we wouldn’t talk about it. I think because we’re both guys it’s easier to not have emotions attached to it it was like it was just sex to both of us. Not to sound any type of way but I think maybe with women it would be harder to separate the two

 

Maybe the average women is more emotionally driven compared to the average guy, but I’m not sure it’s all that much different. I know a lot of guys who seem way more sensitive than I am. Maybe if you were gay instead of bi, it would have mattered more on an emotional level? Most of my stablest and longest lasting FWBs have all been something other than gay. Either they were “straight” and it’s just a bit of fun, or curious, or comfortably bi.

 

The slut in me says absolutely, but the conservative side of me says...why not...

 

Maybe. I'm not single so the immediate answer is no. Unless there was serious and open discussion with my bf first. Which tbh is very unlikely, because I'm not really the open relationship type. But when I was single... sure lol

 

Definitely given and received some brojobs! Love them both ways!!

 

No weirdness between you and the bros afterwards?

 

I couldn’t give any of my current friends bjs bc they are all long timers. Now if I recently met a new hot male friend at a club, I could give bjs all night, but then again wouldn’t that be a hook-up.

 

I voted yes because of the NSA part of the question but if I felt that it would change the friendship for the worse, I'd decline. Friendship is more important to me.

 

NSA?

 

No Strings Attached

 

Ouch... I don't know. My head says "don't even think about it, you know yourself and you will overthink about that". But, at that moment... I'm sure i would follow my guts and say "yes"...

 

Very interesting question. I voted no because I like to be romanced and seduced before I get intimate, though there is one exception, I would definitely give my oldest friend a BJ, I have fancied him since puberty and he still does it for me. ( I can’t believe I posted that)