I never really thought about kissing anyone regardless of gender/orientation. To me kissing is normal and natural. I have kissed my ex who was male and I regularly imagine kissing a woman. I have started to subtly gauge my family's reaction to being gay. Like I thought... My parents generation are not as comfortable with the idea. As time has changed since I was a teenager... My family are supportive but lack understanding. Anyhow... I can imagine kissing a woman but now I'm over thinking it... How do I know I will like kissing her? Has anyone kissed someone and not liked it? Did this question you orientation etc?
Sparks, heat, magnetism, arousal in the genital area and a deep, deep feeling you want more. Oh yes. A "facial hair" guy came onto me and kissed me.....yuk! I do not like facial hair AND I was not "into" the guy. Not my TYPE.. No. Orientation is much more complex than the question on how I reacted to a simple kiss could generate.
Gauging your posts and the tone thereoff, I personally think you would love kissing a girl. Kissing is one off my favourites. First time may be akward at first, but dont worry, biology takes over. Personally I don't kiss or allow to be kissed without me wanting it. So first time with a girl, amazing, first time with a guy, amazing...one girl was so amazing I ended up marring her
I worry about this ALL the time. It makes me so insecure even though I feel like I’m more gay than bi. I wish I could offer advice but all I can say is you’re not alone in feeling this way!
Perhaps not entirely on topic but I once wrote a poem on kissing. not sure it will help answer your question. I think as others have said as long as it’s with a woman you are into you will like it. I also think it’s not something you need to overthink or premeditate. Just go with what feels right at the time. Here come the results of what’s in a kiss A thing that stops time, a moment of bliss In various forms from a peck to a pash Lasting for ages or done in a flash An escape from the stresses and worries of life Where nothing else matters but your girlfriend or wife An electrical spark from finger to your toe A warmth in your heart, your cheeks all aglow Connecting you both and making you whole, Physically, mentally and right to your soul, A firework display, butterflies in your belly, Flummoxed and flustered with knees just like jelly A kiss in itself is such a beautiful thing And also a window to what more it can bring
