How to open up to your husband that your are gay and you want to end up your marriage to him?

Annieromz.....Hello and a great big LGBTQIA+ welcome to Empty Closets! I can remember the first post that I made on EC. I was desperate for help and I got the help that night that I so needed. I hope that we can help you in the same way that I received help. The most important thing to remember about Empty Closets is that we do care about you! We're very glad that you found us here on EC and hope that we can answer questions, give you support and provide a place to vent (as long as it's not violent!) when that becomes necessary!

*****There are 18 different sub-forums here that you can check out and join in the conversations or start your own thread/conversation. When I first joined Empty Closets I was in need of a lot of support and encouragement and I found it here…EC is a safe place. I hope that you'll find good things here too! Folks here will talk to you and share...you don't have to be afraid of asking questions...we're glad to have you! I'm not sure if I understand...are you planning on marring or already married? In either case however, being honest is always the best choice. When you are making a promise to be with another person (marriage vows), if you have doubts about whether you should go through with it or not, then it is not a good idea to make that kind of a promise. It's far better to step back and be honest...then both of you can. take a bit of time to carefully examine what you are doing and make the best decision. If you've already married, then it's really about then same. Much better to sit down and have a serious and very honest conversation and try to work out the problem. Communication in any kind of a relationship is very, very important. If you feel comfortable to let us know a little more about your situation and we will try to help as much as we can!

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