Well hi everyone! I’m a middle aged woman in the UK and I’ve had attraction to guys but have now come out as lesbian. I’ve had same sex attraction for most of my life. It’s confusing because i have loved men in the past but seem to have completely switched and now only have attraction for women. I’m demisexual and emotionally connect and seem to only get that connection with women. looking forward to getting to know you all here anyhow.
Hi @tayjo and welcome to EC. You’ll find other members here who have come out later in life, so you won’t be alone. I hope that you enjoy being part of the EC community.
tayjo.....Hello and a great big LGBTQIA+ welcome to Empty Closets! There are two sub-forums here titled “Sexual Orientation” and "LGBT Later in Life" if you post there I think you’ll find people who will understand what you are dealing with. This is a community of loving, caring and very supportive people and we will do our best to help you blend into the community. You can ask questions in any of the Sub-forums by creating a new thread or by joining in a conversation-thread that is already going. You can also post a message on anyone's Profile Page after you have made at least ten posts yourself. If you have a question that is somewhat private you can always send a Private Message to any Staff Member. Normally Private Messages can only be exchanged between two Full Members, but a PM to a Staff Member is an exception. We are so glad that you have found us here on Empty Closets! .....David
Hello and welcome, I am middle age and just recently came out as well. EC has helped me tremendously and I'm sure they will do the same for you. Good Luck.