Confused about my orientation

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  1. JackTH

    JackTH
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    I'm extremely confused about my sexual orientation and I'm not sure what to do. I've only ever had a crush on a girl but I've had multiple times where I've had feelings of attraction to both men and women.

    I've never been in a relationship, partly due to social anxiety, so this just further confuses me and I have no idea what to do.
     
    #1 JackTH, Oct 12, 2018
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  2. Love4Ever

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    Hi there! You sound like you could be bi. Is this the first girl you've had feelings for?
     
    #2 Love4Ever, Oct 12, 2018
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    It's okay to not have experience. I don't have a dating history to speak of either.
     
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    You could be bi but there's no rush. You should take your time to explore your sexuality. There's no hurry. Sexuality is fluid can be complicated. I know some people who are in their twenties and are still questioning.
    Even I didn't get a serious crush on a single guy for three years after I've realized that I was gay.
     
    #4 AdityaD, Oct 13, 2018
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  5. JackTH

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    This was the first girl but I found out she was gay before I even got to think about telling her how I felt.
     
    #5 JackTH, Oct 13, 2018
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