I’ve identified as queer for a while now, but I recently started casually seeing this woman and I’m like, lol I’m gay.
I still have myself down as bisexual, partly due to my long marriage to a man, but I'm starting to think I'm actually gay.
75% men and 25% women. It is confusing though. I like men with slight feminine features like full lips, curly eyelash and women with an athletic build.
I would say it is equal. Kinsey scale 3 here. But, for some reason, I fall for women way faster than for men.
It's complicated. Having now experienced sex with both women and men, I felt I enjoyed sex with the woman better, but only because she was willing to be very dominant with me. I feel more comfortable sexually with girls, but with men I'm apprehensive about meeting any or flirting with them because I feel vulnerable sexually around men. I now strongly desire sex with a man as I prefer to be the passive partner, however I'm very picky about men and find far far more women attractive than men.
I still don't know what "label" works for me. I was identifying as bisexual, but now I feel like I am more homoflexible or a lesbian. It's still something I am working out. So, as a cis female "bisexual" - I most certainly see myself as 99% attracted to women, 1% to men.
That's pretty even. 55% women and 45% men. And my preference changes after a certain period of time. For example: I really wanted gf two weeks ago now I really want bf
Earlier in life, I was largely hetero, although still entertaining gay fantasies. My same-sex attraction has significantly increased, however, over the years...