I've heard from other users on this site (mainly Chip) say that you can get an accurate depiction of your fantasies by doing this little experiment. The experiment entails the individual masturbating to their own thoughts instead of porn and flip flop fantasies between the same-sex and opposite sex. I've actually tried this experiment before and found that i mostly masturbated to the thoughts of women. Another factor in the experiment is to see which fantasies give you stronger arousal. So today (and sorta yesterday) i decided to "pleasure" myself to the thoughts of men instead of women. For any who haven't read my previous posts (i suggest you do), I've masturbated to the thoughts of my gay friend before and I've gotten off to them (Some of them were intense the first time around). So i tried it today, and found that i could in fact bring my "member" up to an erection, but i couldn't finish off thinking about having sex with my gay friend. It started to go flaccid and i tried again. Once more, i was able to get it up, but not orgasm. I tried it again once more, and i started to go flaccid; until i decided to think of having sex with women. That was when i started to get to edge and finally successfully orgasm. One factor that i should mention is that to get myself to the point of being erect, i had to convince myself that i was going to text my friend to ask him for sex. Whenever i would convince myself otherwise, it would go down (Sometimes). So my question is.... What does this mean? And to answer some questions before people reply: •I am attracted to the female gender/form •I've successfully masturbated to thoughts of women before •I can get "it" up thinking about a women's body or having intimate sex with one
I think you've answered your own question. You're attracted to female/women. Now, the other options would be straight or bisexual.
You pretty much answered that yourself. You like women so you're straight. You might be a bit bisexual, but why don't you just go with who you love? You don't have to force yourself to think about men while masturbating to test your sexuality, If you rub it enough you could probably get hard thinking about anything really...
Well the reason why i'm still questioning is because: •I can get off to men if i wanted to and i have several times in the past (Some were intense) •There was a time in middle school (this probably went on for like 1-2 months) where i would masturbate to same-sex fantasies (This probably doesn't count since this was the start of puberty) •Back when i was 10-11, me and a friend "experimented" for about 3-6 months. I'm not sure if i was ever turned on by the experiences, and there was never any penetration.
Yes, if you wanted to. However, it sounds like your preference is naturally towards women. I know its difficult, but you've got to give it time. We all want certainties in life, but this is something you might take years to settle, if at all. Some folk are happier without labels!
Yeah experimenting with the same sex is quite a normal thing for teenagers. But not all of them are gay or bi. You've had the opportunity to try with both men and women, and if you didn't really like it with men that solves the question! Or you could even try again with a man now that your older, that doesn't make you gay everybody has the right to be curious! And like gravechild said, you could get off to men if you wanted to, if you have to force yourself that way it seems pretty much against your natural preference. I'm sure you could manage to get off to a goldfish if you really wanted to
