The more I think about it the more sense it makes sense. But even if Im really Trans. I feel like I will never stop asking myself "Am I Trans enough?" Any thoughts at all, are appreciated. Thanks
Hey there is nothing that can make you "trans enough". Every trans person feels a little bit different, some don't even experience dysphoria Would you feel better if you were opposite of your biological gender? Do you feel more like a man or like a woman?
There are moments when I'm totallly & completely curtain that Im a woman, which are few and far between.
Well maybe you are genderfluid. If those moments are rare then I guess you propably are. But if you feel more like a woman and would be happy/happier as a woman then you are propably trans.
I probably am trans, because Everytime I hear genderfluid, I think "that's not right, I wanna be a woman. I need to just find a gender therapist already, cause I'm Procrastinating, I keep thinking I need to prove it to myself somehow. When the fact I always come back to "but I wanna be a girl" should be proof enough. Thank you for the advice
Toaster you are very brave well done and good luck. So you sound similar to me; I think you are m2f trans bud. I am gf but my counsellor acknowledges my future alignment to transition.
IMHO I would say you are trans. Carry on liasing with your therapist and keep us updated on your journey. Welcome to empty closets btw
I just started on meds for my depression and ADD. Both of which are life-long issues which I needed to once & for all address as nothing more than a couple small reasonably manageable parts of my reality. Separate from my issues with gender. I was just a girl with a few problems, not that ugly confused thing in the corner, who's meer existence is fueling self loathing chaos Suddenly I was just a girl, working through somethings. But just a girl,nothing more nothing less.
Toaster I wish you all the best. I struggle too but I'm so pleased to be seeing my counsellor tomorrow: a lovely lady called Sue. She knows the woman in me is real and I need to be her.
Good Luck tomorrow, I plan on having my first appointment with a gender therapist in my near future if all goes well. For once I am genuinely exited for my own future.
