definitely. i'm scared that i'll be really awkward and turn the person off. I have no experience at all, and I think I have a fear of being in a relationship.
It sort of scares me too; though it's mostly a sense of discomfort, possibly dysphoria (but that's just me). I have no experience with sex, and I'm still pretty insecure about some parts of it, so I think the fear is natural. But I guess at the moment it doesn't affect me too much because I'm really not too interested in sex at present day.
Having studied biochemistry, I became pretty nervous about sexually transmitted diseases and infections rather than sex itself. Recent news stated that some Gonorrhea strains may soon become resistant to all available drugs.
For me as a girl, i'm scared I won't know what to do. I've heard it's nothing like what you see in porn, and sex education for lesbians it's worse than it is for guys. I feel like i'd need to be in a relationship with someone who knew what the hell they were doing TBH
well, it's not sex itself I'm afraid of. I've got this weird fear of going soft during sex. and now im even more scared of it cuz i goggled it and it turned out to be a real thing. i screamed. a lot. especially cuz i have no experience
yeah, I'm terrified to even cuddle, so I can image sex would be even more terrifying. But....I'm not asexual, I like sex �� But honestly I don't think I'd be able to get to the point of doing something that counts as sex cos wearing a binder just isn't enough to make me forget about my chest. Maybe in the future when I'm further into my transition I'll be able to do it?
I am. I'm scared of opening myself up that much to another person. I'm afraid that I won't do it right, and they'll hate it. I've never even kissed or dated someone. I want to, but I'm scared.
I am also scared. I've had sex before but the thought of doing it again terrifies me. Opening up is a terrifying prospect.
Yeah because I have PTSD from sexual abuse. I fear it very much now because I'm easily triggered and have had so many bad experiences.
I wouldn't say that I'm "scared", but I am apprehensive and anxious about it. There is a reason why I am a 25-year-old virgin. I've never even been in a relationship. I have some aversion to intimacy in general.
This has been on my mind so much lately. Thoughts like "what if I forget the basics lessons of human anatomy?" or "what if I am actually the worst". It's really scary knowing that'll be something I do one day
I was abused and it probably affected the way how I see sex. not having a sex drive is a separate thing. also, it's just painful to me.
Similar to this actually. Plus, when I was younger, I had sex with my then girlfriend who I really did love. However, having sex with her felt - to me - that I was kinda taking advantage of her body, if that makes any sense. Now I don't really bother with it. If it happens, fine. If it don't, oh well.
Same. I've never come anywhere close to having sex with anyone. I don't trust anyone or have enough of a desire for the people that I do know enough to do it. The thought of actually having sex with someone is just scary to me. It's not a huge part of relationships to me anyway. Maybe I'm just old fashioned, I don't know.
I'm not scared of having sex and I have no issues having sex with someone I don't know as well. I am scared, however, of being used for sex. I worry that people will only use me as some kind of sex object because of my sexuality and that they won't deem me worthy of dating/serious relationship because of my identity.
I'm pretty scared to have sex because I don't really trust men, and I'm demisexual anyway. I'm always afraid my health will be compromised in some way or something will go awry, but I wouldn't engage in it unless I'm truly in love, and that may never actually happen for me.
I'm not scared of sex and it's nice but I'm more interested in having a romantic relationship. I just love hugs, cuddles, anything regarding affection.