It would be nice to watch something queer related that was less about sex. Shoutout to asexality, y'know?
Off the top of my head; Imagine Me & You, Make the Yuletide Gay, and Geography Club don't have any sex scenes. They also are awesome movies, so I definitely recommend them.
Yeah, I agree with Xeno on the recommendations. And generally with HuskyLover that some same-sex kissing is fine. But I don't really need to see more to have a compelling storyline. Same goes for books with me. I'm a Sci-Fi fan and I don't mind a love interest between whatever sexes, but I want to read about the sci-fi story and any love story is, to me, an annoying distraction from the story that I want to read... Just my 2cents...
I know your frustration. I keep looking for cute gay kissing gifs (hopeless romantic in need of porn for the heart), and finding sex. What is it with the over-sexualization?