Question for queer males here. Do you find oral or anal more intimate? Which do you do more often? Any of you refuse to do anal period for whatever reason? For that matter, how do things like frot play into the equation for you guys? Thoughts?
I haven't had sex with anyone before, but I'm willing to try anything with the right person. In my opinion, anal is more intimate but I don't know why. It just seems like it to me. Anyways, I'm only 17 so its not a priority in my life to meet a guy and/or have sex. If the opportunity comes soon, then I'm all for it, but I'm not looking for anything right now.
I'm assuming by intimate, you mean romantic? Not animalistic sex. I feel like anal, when you're facing each other, is more intimate than oral. Doggy style anal is not intimate whatsoever, though, lol. That's not to say oral can't be romantic. I have tried frottage, and while it's all right, it just feels like foreplay to me. I feel like there needs to be a strong sensitivity, or strong mental arousal, in order to get anything out of it, compared to oral and anal, at least.
They both have their time and place, I suppose. A greater indication would be who I'm having it with. I couldn't imagine confining myself to one sex act.
I like them both. There's certainly a great many things one can do sexually, and I agree, it's not much fun to confine yourself to only a few of them! Also, I think anal and oral stimulation at the same time have to be among the most amazing sensations. I suggest getting a few toys, to use while you go about oral, as it seems to add a whole new dimension. It's odd...I tend to be quite emotional and intimate, but when it come to sex, I'm like a wild animal! Grrrrrrrrrrr!
I like HuskyPup response the best. Mix up the foreplay and pick your ending! Doesn't have to be the same every time.
Do you think that you can have a fully intimate relationship w/o anal at all? How common do you think same sex relationships w/o any anal at all are?
It is completely possible. I think there's this expectation that guy guys need to be a top, bottom, or vers, but you don't need to do it if you don't want to. You just need to find someone who doesn't like it, either. Personally, I'm not that much of a fan of anal, and will be fine in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to do it.
I don't know. Considering my straight relationships didn't work out partly because they were iffed by the idea of giving anal, probably not. Something like 60% of gay men have anal sex regularly, I've read, but don't have the sources on hand, unfortunately.
Seeing as how I've still got my purity lolz. I don't know because I've never tried any of them but I think both are very intimate if you're doing it with the right person
