I prefer masculine that's what attracts me to guys feminine is a complete turn off for me thats more for girls imo
I'm more on the feminine side myself so I do find masculine men more appealing in a sexual or romantic view. However, men who call themselves "Straight acting," or a really petty in their masculinity are a huge turn off.
I prefer guys who are more masculine, willing to get dirty and work hard. That said, I do wish for a guy who is able to privately open up with me about feelings and emotions. I notice that many men (not sure if it has to do with our Y chromosome :lol are unable to talk about personal feelings with others. I have a good relationship with my dad but I sometimes feel we don't talk about actual meaningful things because we are unable to talk about personal feelings. I just can't really open myself up to him (or any other person) and I'm not sure if it's because I'm a guy. I hope to find someone with whom we can be open and honest and not sweep things under the rug; I just hope guys aren't predisposed to that sort of behavior or that I am in the minority. I mention "emotions and feelings" because to many and society they are a sign of femininity.
Since I'd be in the sub role, he'd need to be or at least act more masculine than myself. Shouldn't be too hard since I'll go out of my way to act a bit more feminine around a dominant guy
I prefer masculine or androgynous guys, though I won't care if you do things deemed feminine. It's just that most feminine guys I know are pompus and interested in things I don't care about such as fashion and style.
When I was younger I was attracted to masculine traits, however as the years pass I have more of an appreciation for men who are feminine. I personally find myself the most attracted to someone that sits snug in the middle of both, like I do.
This may sound weird, but I like guys who look tuff, but are actually really sweet. I dont want someone I am afraid of, I want someone who is my guardian at a metal concert^^