The saying is a wife for duty a boy for pleasure. It is said to be a 'thing' in arabic countries and indeed I have seen enough evidence in damning documentaries such as those you can view about 'bacha bazi' on youtube which show the widescale abuse of underage boys. I think it's important to understand such an horrific practice is about wielding power and is absolutely sexual violence. It isn't related to being homosexual by CONSENT in the world as we know it.
Oh my god, I just realized what this means. I thought it meant something completely different by boy are for pleasure. That is absolutely horrifying. I don't even want to watch those documentaries, the thought is terrible enough.
Sorry I didn't intend to unsettle anyone. As I say, it's important to remember that this is not part of our culture, it is something completely alien and is generally considered outrageous abuse by world leading experts. Feeling attracted sexually / romantically to young men if you are a gay young man yourself is a completely different thing. The two should not be confused or enmeshed.
Maybe I am not so quick to call something misogynistic as the rest of you but I don't really see it that way. It sounds like someone who is gay and in denial and trying to live as heterosexual. Thus, they see their sex with woman as a method to procreate while they see their sex with men as being for pleasure. I'm not sure if it implies that the person thinks that women are only useful for reproduction or that that is the reason why they'd have sex with a woman... which doesn't seem hateful to women.
This is so awful! This degrades women so much, and that should never be done! Goddamn sexist! Haha, just kidding. I hate children, and like guys so...