Name... Help?

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  1. Awoken

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    So I'm just looking for a way to express my name in a more gender neutral way that doesn't sound ridiculous. My name is Cortni. I was just wondering if you guys could come up with something I'm missing as a gender neutral version. Cory is a nope. Too masculine for me. I want something less girly, that could be unisex, but not TOO masculine either. I can handle mild masculinity. If there is a right version for me I'd really appreciate help in finding it, thanks :slight_smile:
     
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    I disagree about Cory--it is a neutral name in alternative spellings: Corrie, Corey, Cori (short for Corinne). I also knew a Cort.
     
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    What about Niki? That's kinda unisex and the CortNI leads into it, kind of... Idk, just a suggestion.

    Best of luck to ya!
     
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    How does Viki sound?
     
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    thanks for the suggestions but honestly I wanted something I could use as a nickname without making it obvious that I changed my name if you know what I mean. I want to start presenting more gender neutral but at the same time don't feel committed enough to choose something entirely different

    ---------- Post added 21st Oct 2015 at 07:53 PM ----------

    Cori is nice tbh I like it
     
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    Alex is extremely gender neutral. Alexis, even. I've known several males and females whose names were Alexis.

    EDIT: Oh, I read your post wrong. Hold on, lol.

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    You could do Kory. A lot of girl names begin with K, but the "maleness" of the name is still there.
     
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    I'm having the same problem. My name's Nicole, and I hate Nikki and other derivatives. Part of me likes Alex, but I don't know... names are a pain in the butt.

    I like messing about on magicbabynames.com because they have a section for unisex names that's very simple to navigate XD May be it'd be helpful if you tried, If nothing else, it's a laugh. Type in your favourite TV/Book characters and see what you end up with. Maybe you'll find something you like!
     
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    Try Nikko? or just make it up ahah Nika or something. See, you have a normal name with normal shortened versions. I have a really weird name to begin with ahaha
     
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    What about using your first and middle initial?
     
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    I think initials would be really cool.
     
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    Cortni could be nicknamed as:

    Cort (pronounced as "court")
    Corin
    Cory/Cori
    C + (middle initial, such as CJ if your m.i. started with a J)
    Corty/Corti
    Cortin


    Personally, I love the way "Cort" sounds. It's also a direct derivative of your original name.
     
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    Do you know what else is really annoying? Finding a name that you really like and then finding out that it's pronounced a different way to how you thought XD I just find that with the name Abrey, which I thought was pronounced 'Ay-brey' rather than 'Ah-brey' :/ NAMES ARE A PAIN IN THE BUTT.