Depending on how we're defining 'virginity' here.... Doing anything with a guy - 19 Topping - 21 or 22 Bottoming - 23 or so My main feeling each time was 'well - that was interesting'. I enjoyed it but I've never seen sex as something to get all that emotional about. And both topping and bottoming have always kind of bored me. So overall, the other stuff that went on during the same event was probably the high point for those. Todd
I had sex with an old guy I found on a hookup site. I planned to have sex with someone else at first but since he lied to me, I was pissed off and immediately found a random partner. And I regret it. There were no feeling, the guys was totally inexperienced and I felt like I was used. But its my own fault, so.. *feelings; *guy -_-
12. At the age of twelve, I experienced the wonders of sexual intercourse with both genders. He was a few years old than I and she, well, she was one of my mother's Avon customers and in her late 30's approx. If not a little older and she showed me how to give and take pleasure. She was an excellent teacher.
I was eighteen. She was twenty-two. It was our third date (and second sleepover). We decided to be girlfriends while we were cuddling afterward. It was horribly abusive and I got really depressed as a result of the constant degradation she gave me, but it opened my eyes to a lot of underlying unhappiness I had, which enabled me to make a lot of life changes, that have all been for the better and I'm much happier now (we broke up a loooooong time ago). She was my first girlfriend, so as far as first girlfriend goes, no. Did not like it. As far as the actual loss of my virginity, it was wonderful. She was way more experienced than I was and that saved a lot of the awkward fumbling that is heard about so often.
I'm 22 (waaaaay past 18 :lol and I still haven't had any sexual experience with any guy. I'm in no rush at all. Finding the right person and taking time to get to know him is more important. I'm mushy
Sex is overrated, so the whole virginity thing is as well I guess. I haven't so much as kissed anyone yet, so I'm not sure how anything further would be anyways. Don't worry, you have a second member of that club with me around. Glorious thought, eh?
If oral sex counts, then it would be ~4mths ago with my ex. I was completely smashed from earlier and he guilted me into it. It didn't last long, both because it smelled horrible and was just gross altogether, I started laughing at something I remembered from the internet and because I was drunk. It didn't last long enough to go anywhere and yeah it was just gross I don't think he ever washed it. He tried to get me to do it again a couple days later when I was sober and I was like "nah that was gross it was nasty". Other than that, I've not had any sexual experiences. My ex was the only person I've dated so far, even.
I was 16, he was 23 (I think). We only just met a few hours prior. It was horrible. Wish I could turn back time.
Depends on how we're defining virginity. If oral sex counts, then when I was 20. If oral sex doesn't count, then still a virgin. for some reason, I feel this immense pressure from society to "do" it before a certain time but then I remember 'society sucks, it'll happen when it happens.'
Don't know how I missed this last night... Really its not a bad thought I also have never kissed anyone either :lol: I noticed your Orientation said 'Demi-Ace' ... its something like that for me too.
Ooh, this thread came back. Wow. So many people lost their virginity at my age. Maybe I-- Lol, nah. Virginity is a stupid concept. *leaves*
Haven't done, and don't plan to until yeah. So maybe a couple of years in the future, maybe more. Depends...