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laws of attraction, wait I don't think we have the right polarity!?

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  1. wannahavechange

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    Good morning all my favorite guys, gals, and cat people of all shapes and sizes. I have a quick q for you guys today what type of people do yuo attract. Physicality,personality,etc.
    Yes, yes!!! I know everyone loves muscles ,just kiddin'.
    But in all seriousness I guess I attract alot of oddballs,anime lovers, and quiet people.
    For me I guess physicality wise, someone super tall, because I'm short for my age. Most of the time I look around at other 18 and 19 year olds and go. Wtf!!! What have your parents been feeding you, it's certainly not puppy chow. tall peeps give the best hugs too. They'd have to be super awkward and dorky to the point where it's so adorable. A warm smile . The personality would have to counteract mine
    Me:frowning2: exterior) really nice,and looks friendly on the outside. (Interior) perv x 100, loves blood and gore, closeted fighting enthusiasts, loves anarchy.

    Him: (exterior) major try hard, .... really clumsy,( so adorable!!!!),". (Interior) sweetheart x 1,0000, loves romcoms, and is a pacifist.
    I'm really eager to hear your guy's response, get to typin'!!!!!
     
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    I don't know if I attract anyone. I have a severe case of obliviousness when it comes to that sorta stuff unfortunately.
     
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    The worst I attract are those who see, how successful I can be when it comes to wanting something, and who hope to use that for themselves.

    The best I attract are those who find it fascinating that I fight against my natural inclinations, and want to know more or even, themselves, start improving their own situation.

    I also have a tendency to attract people with low self-esteem, because they find I can easily boost them up. If I were how I was years ago, I'd easily take advantage of this and mold folks, but I don't do that now.

    I suppose I could be called a therapy-giving leader.
     
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    I don't attract anyone at all. I am invisible when it comes to everyone. So in that case I'm like a ninja, no one can see me for I hide in the shadows and strike too quickly and too fast. That's a positive spin on the fact I attract absolutely no one.
     
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    Yay I'm the best <3<3<3

    I don't know what type I attract but I do know what type I'm attracted to. Someone who is open about their feelings. Their transparency in turn will help me open up about myself. I can't imagine spending my life with a stoic guy, I'm not a mind reader!

    Funny I was thinking about making a thread like this. Bird-of-a-feather or opposite-attracts.
     
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    A cute gay guy that flirted with me once think he might had been a model. Also I think one of my old gay friends use to have a crush on me.
     
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    Well, I seem to be attracting all types of guys who want a hookup, purely for sex. Young, old, fit attractive guys, twinks who want a sugar daddy, older guys just looking for a connection, even some transexuals.

    Sir Furry Bottom & everyone, you need to get out there and try. Be open to everyone you meet, friends or more can happen between anyone. If you try to stick to a certain narrow type of guy, you may miss out on a lot of things in life. Not everyone is a super model porn star looking guy (or gal.) Heck, one guy I'm seeing has so many body and self-confidence issues because he's trying to look like the super model porn star.

    Just be your authentic self, and you'll attract people who like you for that.
     
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    All of these comments made me super excited, I love hearing others points of views. Oh and another quick q? I am really oblivious to flirtation and I don't have a so called "gaydar". Alot of the times friends ask if I am asexual, because I act a certain way when talking to both sexes.
    For women I'll open the door for them, or pull out seats..alot of the time people will ask if the girl I'm with is my girlfriend. My counselor told me that sometimes people take niceness as flirting...
    For men, my guy friends, we just talk regular and tell jokes... one of my friends ships me with a buddy of mine��������
    Oh and another thing, alot of the times gay guys, even some of my gay friends mistake me for being a top, the more dominant one (wtf). I know this is random but I am the submissive type... however my personality is a bit offputting I guess
    Me: short for my age, clothing type: sweaters,hoodies, loose denim, I don't wear skinny jeans, love gore and blood, one moment I'll be rockin' out to of mice and men, then the next I'll be crying and thinking about being in a relationship while listening to lana del rey. My personality is rather androgynous. Hell, even if I was in a relationship with a more masculine boyfriend, I think people would ask me who's the top, because I'm such a gentlemen out in public��������
     
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    Yeah, I've had to discard a lot of preconceived notions of who "looks" like a top or bottom.

    I've seen super-effeminate looking guys who are 100% tops, and big muscle men who are 100% bottom. And frankly even the whole notion of tops being dominate and bottoms being submissive is wrong as well. They are just stereotypes, and don't mean a thing in real life.

    Is a "power bottom" submissive? ie someone who directs what the top is doing to them.

    Just be who you are, and be with who you want to be. I always try to be a nice guy, man, women, old, young. Just how I was brought up and who I am. I race, I shoot guns, I build model cars, I work on real cars, I off-road. I don't look gay (according to gay friends,) but I don't think anyone mistakes me as not liking guys when I'm in a gay bar hitting up other guys.

    Flirting to me has always just been a fun way of interacting with people I find attractive. A little extra eye contact, light physical contact, smiling, giving them compliments especially about appearance. Nothing to take seriously.
     
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    It's not just me! :icon_bigg
     
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    I love all of these comments and @kindy14 thank you for the advice
    I shouldn't really stress so much about it. It does kinda suck though because alot of bottoms think I'm atop and then it gets awkward when I tell them I'm a bottom too oh well perhaps someone will see it one day
     
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