Does size matter to you?

Didn't expect size to matter that much to people. Nice to see some rule you out solely based on your size. :lol:

Size never mattered much to me, but it does in some degree (but we're talking about extremes then). We have length, girth, shape.. So many more things.. But in the end, it depends on how the person uses it. =)

 

Ummm well I'm average (5 inches, average girth), I haven't actually had a relationship but in the past when I experimented I'm pretty sure they had 6 or 7 inches hence I tend to worry a little about my size.

I'm sure in a relationship I wouldn't mind, although I would probably prefer a smaller one to start with as I'm a virgin and my ass couldn't take 7 inches easily, in fact I would probably choke sucking it!

 

Thanks, Big Guy, and no problem. I'm happy to educate where I can.

 

I'll never understand why so many people are so fixated on big dicks. A huge cock is only really appealing psychologically, and outside of that its use is limited.

1. When it comes to penis size, most people are thinking about a single sexual encounter. If you are actually in a relationship with someone with a massive dick, it is going to be something you have access to on a regular basis--likely (hopefully) multiple times per week. The novelty of size wears off, and now you are down to practical matters.

2. Do you want a massive cock up your ass multiple times per week, and all the work that requires? Gay sex is not just something you go off and do on a whim. Being a good bottom--perhaps most importantly a CLEAN bottom--requires some preparation and planning. Is that how you want to live your life?

3. Because of #2, most of your time is going to be spent sucking his dick rather than being fucked by it. Now, if you are into deep throating on a regular basis, then I guess that's awesome. However, never underestimate the smaller and average sized cocks, they are easy to work with and sometimes--especially once the novelty of big dick has worn off--you just don't feel like it. You can work a small dick, with little to no effort and still enjoy it.

4. You can have any sized dick you want at any time. The simple fact is, when you want something bigger you can have it. In fact, there are things that you can shove up your ass that are better than any dick attached to any man on the planet. The most ideal situation if you want anal is for him to fuck your ass with the toy you select, and then suck and play with your dick while doing it. Gentlemen, this is what winning looks like.

I guarantee that any man in a relationship with another man with a massive dick, once the novelty has worn off, will start to have the following mental thoughts: A) 80% of that is just a useless flesh hose. B) I do not feel like getting an endoscope down the throat or up the ass right now, let's do something else.

In conclusion, big dicks are fun to play with when it comes to casual sex, but for long term relationships smaller and average dicks are superior. Additionally, a good sex toy designed for anal stimulation is always going to be superior to his dick, and as lesbians figured out a long time ago and can inform you: penises are not necessary.

 

Yes, Aldrick, we understand - you have a small penis, and that's lovely.

 

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You really love to deflate people's ego, don't you? :roflmao:

 

Size does matter to me... I prefer average or smaller. Cos I'm lazy (j/k). No: cos I'm a petite person and they're easier to handle and more comfortable for penetration.

 

Damn it, I set myself up for that comeback. :lol:

Seriously, though, this is a pet peeve of mine on par with the whole "your a bottom so you must be submissive!" bullshit. :dry:

 

You said best what I gave up on trying to find a nice way to say: if you're going to bottom, a guy who's so big he'll rip you in half is going to get very old very quickly. Not to mention, seems like most guys have felt small and inadequate at some point (except those with the egos that come with pornstar-sized dicks) until they realize that it's not what you have, but what you do with it.

So either way, look for someone out there that will love you regardless. You may not get to rock that size queen's world, but your lover will surely vouch for what they're missing out on.

 

Yeah, I think most people don't understand the difference between boyfriend dick and Mr. Casual dick. I'd be lying if I didn't say, yeah--I like the thought of the occasional big dick. They are exciting. However, part of the reason they are so exciting is that they are rare, and it is kinda like winning a prize. But like with any prize, eventually the novelty wears off. That's when you wake up and realize that your husband wants to sodomize you with a midget leg every day for the rest of your life. :lol:

As a guy who mostly enjoys bottoming, that goes from, "WOOHOO!" to "I am tired. Maybe tomorrow." Great for porn, great for casual sex, bad for everyday use.

 

I have so much lols in this thread

 

Why did...

Where did...

This thread...

 

Personally girth is more important that length, but neither are particularly important. Just so long as it isn't a micropenis :roflmao:

 

I suddenly have a really vivid memory. It was junior high school. A guy just pulled out a dildo made of stone. It was impressive. I was laughing and laughing and laughing, until I nearly passed out from dizziness.

If I were to see a real one of that size in real life, I might actually need ICU.

 

Not that I don't agree, because I kinda do. But what really sucks about this is those guys with huge dicks (and micro dicks) didn't choose to have them, yet we're here saying "you're not boyfriend/husband material because no one wants to deal with your natural anatomy for any length of time" which makes me feel really bad. :-( I know... preferences... we all have them, I'm just sayin...

 

I...I swear to God I thought this said "Does dog size matter to you?"

And I was gonna go off on a tangent about how medium sized dogs are the best.

 

Wrong forum, honey.

LOL.

 

I honestly couldn't care less about size. To me, what is under your clothes is inconsequential to my liking you.

 

LOL! :roflmao: Well, imnotreallysure wont be imnotreallysure if he isnt doing it! He's known for doing it! :lol:



Anyways, for me, I really dont know. But of course too big is scary and too small is a downer. But yeah, I will echo what Quem said, I never thought size is an issue to most members

 

Ahahaha :roflmao: :lol: I love the British