Gay is normal?

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  1. ANewDawn

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    Idk if this makes any sense but I feel like if I were a boy I would still be gay. To me same sex relationships just seem like the way things are supposed to be. Is that weird?
     
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    Lol why would that be weird to anyone on here?

    There have actually been a ton of studies that showed that gay people who then became another gender then preferred their new gender. Now isn't that peculiar?
     
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    I feel you there! If I was a woman, which sometimes I kind of wish I had been, I would definitely be a lesbian.
     
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    100% agree now I think about it
     
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    I used to think that if I were a guy I would totally be gay. I even wanted to be a gay guy. In reality, I didn't, I just wanted to live out my own true sexual orientation and that's why I was so attracted to the idea of being a gay guy. Now when I've realized how much I'm into women I'm pretty sure I would be straight if I were a guy.
     
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    I've had the same thought. I'm not sure though about it though, but it has definitely crossed my mind.

    Perhaps some people are homosexual/heterosexual, while others are gynesexual/androsexual? Binary speaking.
     
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    See there you go man, thinking everything is binary. The only thing binary are the two chromosomes in our DNA, everything else seems to be a spectrum.

    I love the person, who they seem to be inside. So, I've fell in "love" with both men and women now. I could see falling in love with anyone if their heart and soul were beautiful and kind, and caring...

    I also love both male and female bodies... love how all the parts can fit together :grin:
     
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    Same here! If I was a guy I would totally be gay. There's something about same sex relashionships that feels right and better for me.
     
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    I don't know if that was directed at me. If it was, then I'll just say that, as I even identify as Queer, I think I'm aware of the fact that not everything is binary. That's why I added "binary speaking", to note that what I said only works if things were binary. That it was overly simplified. Perhaps I didn't make that clear enough. :slight_smile:
     
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    I have a feeling I'd be gay if I was a guy, but I'd actually want to be straight cuz I prefer women. Gosh this is a complicated question :grin:
     
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    Thinking about it, yeah I think I would've probably been gay had I been a boy. Funny that, haha!
     
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    Makes sense. I think it's more the "same sex" aspect than the actual gender you're attracted to. Some lesbians watch gay porn (with men) because lesbian porn sucks but it's still same sex so it's still good.
     
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    Didn't mean anything by it. Just bringing up the non-binary nature of all this. :slight_smile:

    Where would I fit in, yes, probably if I was a female, I'd still be bisexual? Have no clue. :eusa_danc I've always said I'd screw a sentient consenting alien... (!) I'm not trying to irritate anyone, it's just my individual point of view.