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So... resolutions anyone?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Yeety, Dec 30, 2014.

  1. That one guy

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    More exercise and come out to rest of close family
     
  2. Clancularius

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    I'm hoping I can make 2015 a good year. I have many resolutions/goals:

    1. Come out to parents.
    2. Hopefully begin transitioning. I'm not sure this one will happen because if I am going to begin transitioning next year my parents would be paying for it.
    3. Get over my depression and attempt to become more optimistic and happy.
    4. Finally convince my parents that I will not be successful in the public school system
     
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    First: Dye my hair and maybe cut it so it is more reflective of my oddity.
    Second: Start living and eating healthier.. after my candy is gone, of course.
    Third: Expand my vocabulary and become a better writer.
    Finally: Publish a short story or poem.
     
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    Get a job, fix sleeping schedule, get rid of fast food addiction, become more kind and open person, build a better musculature ... I guess that's it, but it's not the end of the year yet, so I still have time to come up with more things to change
     
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    I never make resolutions, but if I had to say anything, it would be to do something each day, even something small.
     
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    To turn off my internet for an hour everyday and make myself do some writing, whether it's work on my novels, poems, lyrics, whatever. Just need to get out of my writers block rut xD
     
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    I'm going to try to stop biting my nails. It's a bad habit and I want to kick it.
     
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    Pass my first year at uni.
    Learn to draw.
    Stop biting my nails (stopped this year for a few weeks but anxiety got to me).
    Buy a cat (so I'm not lonely).

    You've also inspired me about sugar. I'm going sugar free too.
     
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    Get published in a reputed journal.
    Pass my third year at uni.
    Commit to going to the gym at least a couple times a week. :grin:
     
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  10. HunGuy

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    1. Accept myself completely, defeat my fears and build solid self-confidence.
    2. Perform well as a journalist.
    3. Write a lot of short stories, poems, finish my first novel, and get some of them published.
    4. Be independent financially.

    There's a lot more, but these are the main goals.
     
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    Yep. Be happy.
     
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    I don't really do resolutions but there's some things I want to do this year. Instead I'm going to try a 30-day Challenge every or every-other month. First month is spending, I'm going to try spending only on the neccessities with $10 for additional spending for the month. After that I think keeping a better cleaning schedule.
     
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    Fully accept myself and love myself for who I am.
    Beat these constant depressions and constant thirst for self-pity.
    Make more friends and eventually come out to them.
    Raise my self esteem
    Eat right
    Exercise More
    Study Hard
    And maybe get my first BF.
     
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    Pass my first year at uni
    Make new friends
    Exercise more/eat healthy
    Accept myself completely and hopefully start to come out
    Read more
     
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    I'm not one to make new year resolutions. Never have made one. In the past week though, I decided to try to do what I can to be more independent and less reliant on others which I've found myself becoming more so due to movement disorders.

    Somehow, I'll try to get myself to more independence.
     
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    To try and stop talking to people who make me feel bad about myself. Maybe work on the self confidence thing. :/
     
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    1. Get in to shape. I'm a little pudgy and I don't really like it.
    2. Come out to more people. I haven't really set a limit one person would be alright with me.
    3. Become more financially independent. I moved out earlier in the year but I want to rely on myself and not my parents.
    4. To really give vlogging a shot. I've almost uploaded videos before but I chicken out and I worry no one will like them, but you never succeed at something you don't try. :slight_smile:
     
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    speak my mind more .
    see more of mum&dad.
    get involve in more fundraising .
     
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    1. Becoming fully out of the closet by the end of the year. Most important resolution for me.

    2. Getting a job once I graduate in May.

    3. Having my first kiss with a guy.