Do you consider yourself nice or mean?

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  1. Aro

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    I'm definitely nice. To a fault, sometimes. I know that. But I like making people happy. I am very honest, however. Even so, I like to be kind with my words and if I have to let people down, I do it gently as I would appreciate someone to do to me, you know? I don't think you get anywhere in life by being mean and inconsiderate. I guess niceness can also be equated with optimism sometimes. I am quite optimistic. The only meanness I can say that comes from me is more my sarcasm and sassy attitude sometimes. I like to think I would never go full mean while joking about, though!
     
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    I believe most would consider me a "nice" person...

    But honestly I don't consider myself a good or bad person. I have my flaws like anyone else and my good points... like anyone else lol I try to be slightly better each day because I know I'm a work in progress. :slight_smile:
     
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    I can be very nice at times. Sometimes, I just get so fed up with other people's bullshit that I probably end up coming off as a bitch. And dear god, don't even try talking to me when I haven't had my vitamins! Wolf! I raise hell.
     
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    I like this answer.
     
  6. gazwkd

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    Nice - however I'm also a realist and quite blunt when the need arises which people can misinterpret as mean.
     
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    I try to be nice, but i can be mean when i think someone has been really out of line :')
     
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    I consider myself very, very nice. Until you force me to be mean. Then I'm very, very mean.
     
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    I think i come across as a much nicer person on the interwebs. I dunno why, but i guess that's how it goes.
     
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    I consider myself a nice person, generally. I'm sassy and sarcastic, but people know know me get it. I may come across as 'mean' sometimes, but not my intentions. I don't think someone who is mean is necessarily bad at heart.
     
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    I am nice, but I have limits. I am the nicest person, or the worst nighmare, it depends on how you treat me.
     
  12. beyourself

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    I try to be nice to people but am sometimes mean. And I am a sarcastic person and some people just don't seem to get sarcasm.
     
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    On the whole yes, but when some idiot at work does something stupid.....
     
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    I don't know, ask my cousins.
     
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    I'm a pretty sarcastic person which some people consider mean but at the same time I'm generally nice, too nice that I get taken advantage of often
     
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    Depends on who you ask.

    If you ask me, I say 60/40 mean, but good spirited.
    Ask my GF, I'm just mean to people.
    Ask my GF's daughter (it also depends if she wants anything), I am mean.
    Ask my dog, I am 100% nice.
     
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    I'm 50/50 depending on which personality I'm in that day...