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Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Kasey, Dec 11, 2014.

  1. Dented

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    That's great man, nice one!

    And, well, I'm kinda terrified that everything's just gonna look bad/embarrassing, or that I've made a mistake, or like a thousand other worries going round in my head...
     
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    I'm probably going to meet my internet friend tomorrow! He's a trans guy a bit younger than me and lives a few hours away and I'm so excited!!!
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    Yes I am going to be safe. I know his full name and I've seen multiple pictures of him with various friends and family. I also know the name of the village he lives in and all about his family. I am also meeting him with a friend in the centre of my nearest city.
     
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    yesterday and this morning I'd had some minor trouble with my appearance. I'd lost a sports bra I use as an effective binder [I'm rather small chested] leaving me with only it's twin to use and no way to double up on bad days.

    My fiance suggested a trip to the store after work to buy more. He added that the one's I have now haven't seemed as tight or fitting and with some new ones I might not need to double up at all.

    It might sound silly but we often don't talk about the trans-ness. we normally just let it be and he treats me as male. It meant a lot to me to know he recognized my discomfort.
     
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    Awwwww jack that's so cool <3

    ---------- Post added 30th Dec 2016 at 07:20 AM ----------

    Oh shush you'll look beautiful
     
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    Arrived literally like 10 minutes after I posted that. I'm happy* with what I brought :3

    *internally screaming in a good way
     
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    OOOOOO did you put it on does it look nice
     
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    Yes to both :3
     
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    yaaaaaaayyyy
     
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    A couple days ago, I was at a gas station, and noticed that they changed the signs on the bathrooms to gender neutral, the only thing they added was a sign on the bottom of the former "men's" that said, "no changing table".
     
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    I finally found a comfortable bra that fits me and my breast forms.
     
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    I haven't been feeling like a depressed piece of shit the past couple days!
     
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    Used a new toy during sex and I think I've found a way that I can masturbate and not feel dysphoric at all :slight_smile:
     
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    Isn't that the best? I just got something really great that totally erases my dysphoria too. I just never wanna leave the house now haha.
     
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    I can finally wear a tank top without a binder showing!
     
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    A bunch of straight drunk chicks were trying to get my number in drive thru.
     
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    IToday is the day of the dance, where I can finally be a guy!
     
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    I met my friend Alec (I've never met him before) and he's great! That is a nice ending to this year I have to say.
     
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    My foster mom called me her daughter today, felt so nice to hear her say that :slight_smile:
     
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