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What Do Others Notice About You First?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Kaiser, Dec 6, 2014.

  1. NingyoBroken

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    My look. In real, people question my gender.

    Online(where I show my true self), I am either seen as beautiful or freaky.
     
  2. Radioactive Bi

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    The pure awesomeness that literally radiates off of me.

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    I am quiet. And when I talk I tend to talk fast and mumble. And make very little eye contact.
     
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    I don't know, but people randomly start talking to me, or me to them, so it's some sort of vibe and it's not with the intent of hitting on someone. Regardless, I am clearly an introvert.
     
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    Probably that I'm a massive geek idk, or my looks which aren't nice at all but honestly I don't know...
     
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    Obviously the first thing people notice is how I look? So I guess people notice my largeish frame and whatever great sweater I'm wearing. After that probably that I smile a lot, then that I'm normally quite quiet
     
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    People always notice that I'm tall as f:***:ck for my age. I'm only 15 and I'm 6'2! And for some reason people think I look smarter because I have gray eyes...? I'm especially mystified by that one.
     
  8. Clancularius

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    My face, usually I look really angry. Apparently it's just my regular look that looks really angry.
     
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    I know the struggle. (*hug*)
     
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    People usually notic the way I talk first. Usually I am quiter because I have a Small lisp, but the more I warm up to a person the more I talk I get louder and become more fluid with my hand gestures. Also I'm really tall for a girl. :slight_smile:
     
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    If I dress masculine, probably my style. If I dress feminine, probably my hair or smile.
     
  12. love dont judge

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    Ive been told by people ive just meant that they think im older than i really am. When i ask y they reply by saying that my mannerisms and the way i hold myself and the way i speak influence that. I actually look younger than i am, but they notice first my matureness and wisdom really.
     
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    The world needs more of this. I am like this most of the time, but sometimes I am definitely NOT. That's because I don't easily put up with rude service or someone just being confrontational for the hell of it. But, realistically, most people out in public tend to be fairly polite, whether in line at the store, at adjacent tables in restaurants, and other places.
     
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    I am very nervous and quiet, almost timid when meeting people for the first time. I've been told my mannerisms are rather conservative before, which I suppose makes sense for being raised in such a strict household.
     
  15. MindvsHeart

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    It's usually been either a piece of clothing i.e my many scarves, my bowties, etc or my trademark glasses that never leave my face or my 'warmness'.
    'Warmness' is a broad category (aka friendly, pleasant) since most people either say I have a warm smile, or a friendly personality or warm eyes or to be literal, warm hands. Yes, people have actually searched for my hands because I tend be warm despite cold weather and it's common to see friends of mine slip their hands into my own or into my jacket pockets for warmth.
     
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    The way I dress people will either think im a boy or a lesbian
     
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    Not sure What people notice in me now, but I'm pretty sure that the first thing they'll notice by the end of the month will be my pretty, blond hair, LOL!

    Anyway, my lips seem to catch attention, because they're so damn small. My baby cheeks, too. As for the rest, my voice is a little airy, soft in a way. Ever heard Ellie Goulding? Now you have an idea how I sound. Can't sing though, lol.

    Mannerisms? The way I never look at people's eyes while talking, playing with random shit to avoid eye contact, biting my lips or pressing my cuticles when I'm nervous... And being fabulous as fuck!
     
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    1. That I look tired
    2. I look mean
    3. I look like a guy with a really deep voice (Note: I'm not)
    4. I look and dress like a fraternity brother (Note: I am :slight_smile: )
     
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    While you're being awesome is correct, I think that glow you have on because of... ummm you are radioactive maybe? :grin:


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    How the hell I know. Never asked. I never did or will care what people see in me or how they see me. If they like me then we have something in common. If they hate me then I have nothing to say to them.
     
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    My (excessive) weight and politeness.