If someone is prude about sex and being naked would u still date them?

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    it depends on the person
     
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    Yeah, I would. That's not exactly a big priority/deal breaker for me
     
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    It depends, really. Modesty is fine and waiting is fine, but if they aren't comfortable in their own skin, then that's a problem. And I really can't picture myself with someone who can't even platonically appreciate the natural human form.
     
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    I'm not at your level of relationship (scary word to me ) but anyway ,pretty much the same here with naked and me. The other , not so much. He is kind of modest. I think it's the whole "churchy" upbringing . He plays sports too and I asked him how he dealt with the locker room and he got kind of annoyed . He thought I was suggesting that he walked around naked after games or whatever. The few times we've been in a bed he asked why I didn't put on my shorts after..so , I did .
     
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    Yeah my boyfriends also didn't have any problems with it. Tho I only prude when it comes to being naked.

    I feel silly when naked. I always like to have some mystery, like erotism, a playground to use my imagination... when you are naked what can I imagine? Your internals? Never aroused by liver or stomach but I could try. :grin:
     
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    You know, for some people that can be a sign of an underlying issue. It's a result from when I was raped that I'm still very uncomfortable being naked/partially undressed in front of other people, even my boyfriend. Just something to add.
     
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    Haha yessss count me in. Im that kinda person too..
     
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    If I was successful at corrupting them, sure...or, if they were into cosplay and such, it might be fun if they weren't nekkid. They could be Spider-Man, or something.
     
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    This certainly wouldn't be a deciding factor on its own, but it would probably be a strike on the 'reasons not to date' tally.
     
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    I like ur opinions :slight_smile:
     
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    I couldn't do it. Sex is probably the most important part of a relationship for me. Without sex, I couldn't continue a relationship with someone
     
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    Honestly, I don't see it as that much of a problem and I definitely don't see it as a reason to not date someone that I like.
     
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    I would be the prude one probably. Unless I really like the person, then maybe :wink: But I have no problem with sexual jokes and stuff, just the actual sex bit.

    But I would absolutely still date someone like that!! There's way more to people and relationships than just sex!
     
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    Depends on just how prude they are... If they're, like, as prude as can be, no.
     
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    Holy shit no. I need my partner to do dirty things to me.
     
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    Some people need to be "warmed up". Forgive me for saying so, but I am one who is a gentleman in the streets and a freak in the sheets. I may seem shy or tentative. Once I trust you, then it's anything goes minus pain, blood, poop, or pee.