Oh sorry! I feel a little bad for assuming it was only sexual you were talking about. Thanks for the insight! Thanks to the others for your replies too All great! (*hug*)
WHAT IF I CAN NOT PRODUCE THE BEST OF SEXING THOugh WHAT IF I WAS THE WORST SEX SHE'S EVER HAD AND MY GODZILLA LESBIAN SUPERPOWERS WERE ACTUALLY JUST WEAK? are people fairly understanding about this or is it a turn-off incompetence of the hand what if a dog bit off my fingers
Oh gosh.. You are one confused young woman! Don't worry! If she loves you she will be fine Usually when people are inlove they achieve an orgasm with the person they love. If they don't then the partner most likely sucks in bed. :lol: If a dog bit off your fingers I would be sure to not watch! :eek: So gross!
^ pretty much what she said. I figure if I suck at it and she gets mad, she's not worth it. Also....... Dog bitten fingers. I know how to make a dog barf. I just flash them c No Wait I've had to do it before because dogs are suicidal and can find dark chocolate from a mile away. I just realized this has nothing to do with pleasuring girls and doesn't matter to the convo. -_-
What if I suck in the bed?? PEOPLE GET BETTER IN THE BED RIGHT?!!? Thank you for the reassuring though guys, it is nice! I have some *cough*WORRIES*COUGH* about these things ha also jay a lurker may get off on that so uh idk nothing is offtopic :v
I dont think we get worse in the bed (fingers crossed as long as the dog hasnt bitten them off ) so there is still hope! and if your godzilla powers are weak maybe the girl you are with will give you some of her powers to regenerate your power up!
Oh yeah, I agree with this too. There's so much lesbian misogyny in the world, and It can be perpetrated even by other queer women :/ That's why I don't feel comfortable dating women, ever.
I'm a little worried that I won't be "queer" enough for her if she's a lesbian. That sounds terrible, but I fear it a little as a bisexual, because I know that I also like guys and I worry that that would turn some women off. :/ I don't think I could have a healthy relationship with someone with that mentality though.
That she's not out and will want to keep the relationship private Not being able to make her climax/her not being able to make me climax It being awkward during sex Her getting jealous of my close female friends Her only wanting to experiment Having different sexual drives Her embarrassed to be seen together as a couple in public Losing her
Aw (*hug*) You just summed up all of my fears basically. I'm not so scared about the sex part.. It's mainly losing her I guess and her being ashamed of our relationship. Because I personally would think our relationship is the most beautiful thing in the world. So why hide it? Good response by the way!
So I just thought i'd bump this thread.. See if anyone else has any fears! Yes i'm bored again.. Come on guys!
If a dog bites off your fingers... use your toes! elbows! get creative! :icon_bigg ---------- Post added 26th Jun 2014 at 11:27 PM ---------- Worries are that I will lose my attraction to her (same worry I have dating men), that she'll find me weird, that she'll think I smell bad, that she'll realize I have NO IDEA WHAT IM DOING IN LIFE EVER.
that she will realize what an awkward goofy fuckeing goober i am on the first date and is scared off i may never even get to use sexing godzilla foot powers ): i may never even meet a girl and besides what if she thinks im ugly or boring or bad at sex or gets tired of me
Many things, but one of them is falling for a biphobic lesbian. What lesbians need to see is that if I date them, I date them for a reason. I don't wanna be with someone who is afraid of me leaving her for a guy. That fear doesn't only terrorise our relationship on her view, but also makes me feel untrusted, because someone I'm ready to trust so much, is afraid I'd not be worthy of her trust. That would affect me for a long time, because I have such a need to feel trusted. If I fall for a lesbian who will not want to date me because of me being bi, I've got a broken and angry heart. That makes me feel I'm not enough, and everybody knows that feeling is terrible.
Basically, this. That she will like me and everything, but tell me in the end that she's actually more into guys, but "we can still be friends" and shit. I've heard of it happening, I'm scared of being left heartbroken.
I won't be enough for her, can't work through difficulties, we lose interest along the way, sex doesn't work out. Oh
That she won't like me because I'm bi not gay. That we'll have problems related to being a public couple. That sex won't work out well. That somehow nothing will work and I'll realise I'm not as queer as I thought I was. (irrational but still there) That she won't want children. (Obviously later down the track but still)
