Hi "Really," Well, I'm not sure if this was for myself but... I quit my job. I've put my stuff in storage. And I plan to take an extended road trip. I will be meeting different women in person that I've met online. But I'm not getting attached to a specific outcome. I'm considering relocating to Tucson. I'm considering doing a "Walk Across America" type trek to raise money for pancreatic cancer awareness, prevention and treatment. It killed my mother and August 2015 will be the 40th anniversary. I'm considering taking the advice I've been getting, which is to attend group lesbian events, meet people that way, make friends, get closer, and hope that one of those becomes something more. It sounds sort of conventional and boring, but what the hell. I have nothing to lose at this point. Thanks for asking.