I'll cut to the chase. I understand the nipples are erogenous zones, and when l've "seen" them stimulated during masturbation/sex (granted, these are from comics and likely don't line up with reality too well), the recipient is all "holy poop that felt good". Yet when l try it, l just get a negligible pleasure response; it's not even enough to really be arousing. Are there techniques to use for it to work, or is it a case-by-case thing? Also l'm sorry but "nipple" is such a frickin weird word.
Not every one enjoys nipple play. I guess some guys have more sensitive ones than others. I personally get no pleasure from people touching, pinching, rubbing, sucking, licking my nipples either. I even got one pierced a while back thinking that it would make it more sensitive and more pleasurable, but to no avail. It's just a case-by-case thing / personal preference. That said, if you really want to experiment with them you can try things like ice cubes or clothes pegs. They can sometimes cause some type of reaction or sensation - even if it's just pain or uncomfortableness. Peace!
Yea, I never really enjoyed it either. To each their own I suppose. But if someone wants to caress me, and not spend too much time there, then great!
Hi Gregarity I find my nipples are sensitive only when touched in a very specific way when they produce an effect like getting a pleasant tingling feeling in the base of my cock inside my body, it’s like an electric shock. I am most sensitive on the very top of the nipple with very very very light touch, sometimes it’s better through clothing. When touched a single time I feel a jolt of electricity pass through my body to my cock arriving about ¼ seconds after each single touch. If I touch the nipple again before the jolt has arrived at my cock I don’t feel the second touch and the effect is ruined. I have also found that I do not respond to a moderate or heavy touch, it’s got to be light. I haven’t tried a feather yet, but that’s the kind of pressure required for me. I don’t know if I could orgasm from nipple play alone, the urge to play with my cock always takes over, but I could easily imagine someone else could bring me to orgasm with just nipple play in some light bondage situation. Hope that helps. Sale Gay Guy
No matter how aroused I am, touching my own nipples never really does anything for me. BUT... it's a totally different story when someone else does it. When my boyfriend and I are fooling around, we tend to playfully tease each other as it's something we both find really hot. So sometimes he'll lick and suck and gently bite my nipples, and it feels amazing. I'm sure most of the pleasure comes from the whole experience and not just from the nipple stimulation, but afterward I'm always rock hard and ready to go!
For me, having my nipples touched during intimacy can definitely get me going. I think that some people can get pleasure from it and others may not. I guess it depends on how your body reacts to it and your feelings and opinion on the subject.
I don't feel anything from nipple play. And I find having my boobs played with pretty uncomfortable. Not mentally, but physically. I'm fine with light touching but hard play hurts me. I prefer to have my neck, back, thighs, and hair touched.
Nipple play doesn't do much for me, but it works for my fiance. It's just not critical. One of my asexual friends who has a libido can't get off without nipple play, though, because being self-sexual, it's all about sensation and less about desire, fetish, or attraction.
Wow, thanks for the responses, everyone! The impression l'm getting is "it depends, and it could be worth trying with a partner"... I'll file this information for later.
Pretty much. It's never done that much for me, personally. It feels nice, but so does rubbing my chest or stomach - about that same level. So I tended to not think about it that much. But once I went to bed with a guy who apparently was upset that I wasn't giving his nipples any attention. So he stopped and repositioned himself to put his nipples right next to my mouth. I sort of got the hint. Lex
Doesn't do anything for me. I took a medication(amitriptyline) that temporarily made them sensitive each morning, and they were itchy. It made it so bad some of the skin got torn ever so slightly. Then, these tiny papules developed(kind of like penis papules but different). Thankfully, they finally went away.
My nipples are almost more sensitive than my penis. I think it's just a questions of nerves and how you're wired. Every single person has different erogenous areas. Apparently yours is not nipples... Experiment away and try to find your "spot"
I don't know about other people touching my nipples, but when I do it, I'm like... um, is something supposed to happen?
It certainly seems different for everyone. Personally my nipples are very sensitive and I'll get easily aroused by them being gently rubbed. Happy days
its prob case by case like anal orgasms. ive never had an anal orgasm. but i love playing with my nipples while i masturbate.
Damn, i love playing with mine and having them played with. Very sensitive there. Thx to my wife for figuring that one out for me
